I am getting bullied by the manager (who is police chief)at my apartment Complex. I live in a low income housing area however I pay full rent. I am being told that I can only have someone spend the weekend with me 2’xs in a month and visit me 2’xs in a month during the week (during the work week it’s just to stop over for a bit).The owner backs up police chief.
The owner says it’s in the lease that if someone complains about someone visiting then they can enforce these rules. I said to the owner it doesn’t say that anywhere in my lease. He said the manager has a different set of rules and also the lease has been updated. Which is another lie because I have two leases the last lease was dated February 2020. If I don’t abide by these rules then I’m kicked out. There’s a lot more to the story but I would be typing all day. But I do not have a support system. My psychiatrist n counselor. I pretty much don’t have anyone. Plus stuck in a small town without a license. I’m looking into the matter legally but then what happens after that. Get bullied by the police chief even more?
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Were you responsible in any way for activities that have caused problems in your flat
You mention Health Professionals are you still seeing them or has the treatment stopped now ?
If your treatment has ended, do you feel you need future treatment. Bullying is wrong and it can have serious implications to you if it is not looked into. Have words with your Doctor and explain what has been going on, make a list of all salient points. Your Doctor may be able to help or suggest various places that may help
You mention the place you live is not in a good area, do you feel they want you too leave or similar. Would it not be better to move onto something better. It sounds like they want you out, you making that decision for them.
No not at all. I have lived here a little over a year. I’m Friendly to all my neighbors. I’m very respectful to everyone. My rent is paid on time every month. I’m very clean. Most of my neighbors are elderly so I go and offer my assistance if they should need anything. I take care of my dog. I clean up her dog dew after she goes. The chiefs daughter was living here with her dog that was to large for the size we’re able to have and never cleaned up after it. There are other instances that he lets other people get away with but singles me out. And I don’t think it’s only me he picks and chooses. Plus his mom lives 2 apartments away from me and she is in EVERYONES business.
I still see my psychiatrist, counselor, and take my meds. I’ve explained to both of them what has been happening. I had talked to my mental health advocate as well and she had this woman get in touch with me and gave me a list a free lawyers or low cost ones.
Yesterday I called this organization from a big city that helps you if your civil rights are being abused. They gave me a number and I talked with a receptionist and explained my situation. I wasn’t available to answer the call but i was contacted by a lawyer who I will be calling back today. I want to weigh all my options before I proceed because if I do stay I don’t want more harassment from the police or the possibility of getting kicked out and being homeless cuz I’ve been there. I want a backup plan. I’m fine with relocating but my rent is so cheap hear and I have a nice apartment. I don’t think they are just trying to get me to move out but I could be wrong.
Let us know how you get on, sometimes people try to take advantage of people with Mental Health Concerns, sometimes even family can be very unreasonable.
Personally you seem to have people around you who can advise and help you with this unpleasantness, Being a Bully mean the person who is calling you is a coward that affects people not as strong as himself.
Now I am very insular in my attitude in Life Choices and prefer my own company, Wife and Dog. Sometimes however there is always someone around who tries to break the peace
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