I'm a little annoyed at myself because I had so much more to complain about but then I had that stupid epiphany. Ok, not so much an epiphany as word association with past trauma memory. "Suffocating" was the trigger word. It set me off because once upon a time someone got really mad at me at something I said and, as we all know, you cant keep talking if you cut off their airways. LOL.
But as with most feeling, it was more the accumulation of a lot of things than just a single one. It has been a really long, tiring and nerve wracking day and that dumb flashback was the shiny red cherry on top. I just needed to take a moment to stress cry, then take a step back and evaluate my thoughts to see if what triggered my emotional outburst was TRULY caused by the newest sequence of thoughts and memories OR if it is a problem/issue that has multiple ignition points. I dont have answer today and I doubt I'll have one tomorrow BUT I have faith in my tireless background brain and I know I'll figure out an answer that will make sense to me some day.