I've been buying colorful and tie dyed bandanas. I love them. I've always struggled to properly express myself. But I'm realizing that by throwing on bright colors helps people approach me. I even plan to get a tattoo to make it easier to talk about my life to other people. These bandanas are awesome because they literally replaced hair ties for me. Its a stretchy one that I could wear like a mask. But also lets me wear it around my wrist like a sweat band. I got long curly hair that goes down to the center of my back so I really needed something like this.
Importance of expression: I've been... - Anxiety and Depre...
Importance of expression
Ya I'm getting a tattoo on my forearm. It's pretty much about my life. Maybe I'll explain what I plan here sometime today.
Interesting finding people approach you more. I will have to try that. Any other tricks you have learned? I won't get a tattoo lol
A cool little mind trick. Bright colors are more noticable. We actually recognize green first usually before the darker colors. I'm trying to express who I am more by facing that fear of being judged for what I wear. I've realized that my whole life I've avoided bright clothing. But now I'm realizing I'm getting more glances from people in a non negative way. Some people even compliment me. It's actually making me feel better about speaking to others. I even plan to tie dye a hoodie in black and bright colors.
I think the tattoo is a great idea.
That sounds cool, it sounds like its going to be a very large tattoo
I do something similar, I wear outrageous Teeshirts (unusual for a 76 year old woman, but it make folk laugh and often gets a comment!)
Cheers, Midori
Thats awesome. I've been through a lot, but I've come to realize that our pain and traumas lead us astray. But deep down we're all compassionate and caring in some way. We all have a kid in us and no one should be afraid to express that. Even in old age. Like with myself and I forgot who I was and what my needs were. I'm bringing my friends together again after 8 years of on and off get togethers. After confessing how I haven't been good. I think they all realize that about themselves. Going to college has taken so much of their time I think they forgot how to fully express themselves to their friends.
So anyway, rock on midori
Express yourself because its what makes us human. Much love to you ❤️
I love the color. I been buying a lot of clothes from my local hippie store. 😄 I really need to get better shirts and pants.
Hello, I'm glad that you like colors and they make you happy. Your happiness comes first.