Help for my son?

[1jusjac]

How do I support my son? If someone doesn’t help us soon he will kill himself. We barely caught him in time this time. He gets out of the group home next Monday. He is still in extreme pain and not sleeping; even on medication. I am running out of money and time. He needs more help!

[LilyAnnepuppy]

I'm sorry you're going through this. I identify with feelings of fear about your "child (no matter how old he or she may be)." I wish I had answers for you other than to get help for yourself. I haven't found a way to "fix" my daughter yet, and it's been decades of pain and fear. Unfortunately she has to participate in her own recovery, whether it be from mental illness or addiction.

Here in Florida there is such a thing called the Baker Act where if someone is a threat to themselves you can call the authorities. And I know other States have similar services.

If he's in a group home now, isn't he "in the system" to avail himself of some help?

[1jusjac in reply to LilyAnnepuppy]

He is getting help and trying very hard but the feelings are intense and inescapable. In California he has to be trying to kill himself or hurt someone else before they will do anything. Luckily he has never tried to hurt anyone else and has been successful quiting marijuana because of his mental health. The lack of resources is alarming. He is 21, is legally blind and has overcome autism. He has worked so hard to overcome his circumstances but this severe depression and anxiety is relentless and uncontrollable for him.

Thank you for letting me know I am not alone.

[LilyAnnepuppy in reply to 1jusjac]

No, you're not alone.

[Hidden in reply to 1jusjac]

your not alone .. i look after a member of my family with mental health issues .. it can be an emotional rollercoaster for family too .. draining ! i wish you and your son all the best.. Cannot make any suggestions of further support as i’m in a different country .. hoping you get the support you deserve for you and your son .. take care ☘️

[1jusjac in reply to Hidden]

Thank you

[Hidden]

You did not say how old your son was.first take care of yourself.. don't get your sei sick worrying about him.if he is an adult try to get him a new Dr with new meds.i am sure you have did everything.. get yourself in support group.i will pray for you.be well.

[1jusjac in reply to Hidden]

He is 21. He is released from the care facility next Monday. He still suffers but is fighting for his happiness. I have been praying and doing a lot to take care of myself.