Lonely

[Chels85]

Ugh I’m sitting alone in my apartment watching tv and being lonely.

I am trying my hardest NOT to contact stupid people who I usually contact when I feel this way. But it’s hard...

Just hate feeling this way.

Thanks for listening

[paint1018]

Thanks for sharing how you feel. If it brings you even a small amount of comfort, you're not alone in that. I've basically been alone on my couch for four days straight. So, although I can't say I know exactly how you feel, on some level I understand the pain of being lonely. If you're resisting the urge to reach out to those specific people, maybe it's for the best and it's good of you to trust your instinct. If you don't have people who are a healthy influence for you to reach out to, maybe think of activities you can do. I just signed up for drum lessons and had my first the other day, it was the only real joy I've had in weeks and the next lesson is the only thing I'm looking forward to this week.

I know it's a horrible feeling. And I'm sorry that you're experiencing it.

[Chels85 in reply to paint1018]

Hi ty for your response.

I’ve been coloring that relaxes me but right now all,I can think about is being lonely.

It’s hard for me to date because I have a personal issue... I don’t want to get into it but yeah

Anyways I try to keep busy like you said.

And I don’t have many friends my close ones all have kids are busy with their lives.

I never got to experience social life in school I went to 3 special ed schools. That’s why I don’t have many friends sorry thoughts are racing rn.

Ty again hugsss

[Hidden]

Maybe you need to join something a few things like on meet up see what people are up too.

[Chels85 in reply to Hidden]

Hi there

I want to but I have social anxiety...

It’s hard for me to do that.

Ty for the advice

🤗

[ivy0]

Hi Chels. I know your pay wasn’t new today, but I’M new h here today ;), for many of the same reasons as you, and I just wanted you to know you’re not alone. 💚

[ivy0]

“Post” not pay. Sorry! Argh, autocorrect.

[Chels85]

Welcome! And thank you.

Lol autocorrect

Thank you for making me smile I needed it.

I’m at my parents for a few days they live right around the corner from me.

I have a good support system.

Love and hugsss to you