Am I nuts

[BrownEyesBlue]

Is it appropriate for a man and woman to have conversations online with flirting and sexual innuendos and downright inappropriate talk while the man is suppose to be in a loving relationship with another woman? Am I stupid to think this is wrong? Even when he says “he’s allowed to have female friends”. She gives it just as good as he does. To me this is wrong.

And he turns it all around on me. Says I’m insecure and stupid and wrong. And when she called me a bitch he didn’t even defend me. He’s more defensive of her. I’m a very secure person. I am insecure when it comes to him and no, I don’t trust him because there’s been two other incidents. Not as big as this though. Cyber cheating is a thing right?

[BlackLaborador]

Having flirting conversation with another person who is in a relationship is wrong. Well, if participation from both is mutual, and he turned it on you, that makes him even more of a jerk. At the end of the day, to me, I would also be cautious to be involved in this type of situation because usually men who flirts online that is involved in a relationship are never serious, nor will he treat you right. Hope you are doing okay and please don't get hurt, because it is not worth it. Cheating happens regardless cyber or in real life.

[BrownEyesBlue in reply to BlackLaborador]

Thank you. Thank for for making me feel validated. And that I wasn’t just reading too much in to things. I am so tired of being manipulated. Thanks you!

[BlackLaborador in reply to BrownEyesBlue]

You are welcome!