How to get over a guy

[Questioning123]

I hate to admit that sometimes the smallest things hurt me deeply but they do and that’s just who i am sometimes a very sensitive person and that’s okay. So i called my boyfriend to just tell him i love him and he doesn’t respond so i say i would like for you to say it back and his response is “i miss you” and i hung up and broke up with him. It hurts but I know i deserve better and I’m going give myself better by letting him go he doesn’t deserve me and it’s time i truly believe that and move on from him by finding myself again. I will admit i lost myself loving him i don’t know how or when but i just know i did. This journey ahead will not be easy but i know it will be worth it.

[Hidden]

Obviously something has built up overtime within the relationship for you to abruptly break up just like that.

It sounds like you are way ahead, ready to move on. Brave move in my opinion. You’re going to do well.

[Questioning123 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you that meant so much to me.

[Hidden]

You are very brave to make that move. It's a hard one for many, but worth it. It will take a while to get over it, but you will heal. Have a blessed day!

[Questioning123 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you

[Storm74]

I am on this journey now and no not easy but will he stronger in the end

[CNDmoonchild]

He is the one who lost. Not you. You are know becoming even more beautiful. He was just ignorant and did not know how lucky he was and what he had with you.

Each negative in life must have a positive. Find it. So just keep finding the reason why you feel out of control and get it back. P...ositive is POWER and N...egative only drives you NOWHERE.

I remind myself by saying over and over, P squared N squared ..... That is my secret phrase to me when I realize I am being a negative NeeNee (my Dad used to say that to me). And this is the only math equation I understand (haha). I sucked in math is grade and high school.

Keep your head up....live, love, laugh!

[Questioning123 in reply to CNDmoonchild]

Thank you i appreciate that i suck at math too lol

[Afrohair]

Just curious as to why it’s so important to say it back?does that imply he does not love you ?i don’t understand do you feel like he does not love you ?im sorry you have broken up so abruptly I hope you find someone better suited do know because he didn’t say it back I don’t think it means he Dosent love you but he might feel pressure to say I love you on the spot like that and like it does not flow naturally in conversation I guess you know your ex very well in that sence and know exactly what he meant though and I’m clueless about your relationship good luck for the future x

[Questioning123 in reply to Afrohair]

Honestly it’s deeper then that just one moment i constantly felt alone in the relationship and I’ve been feeling really low & i just wanted him to give me something so i knew whether to hold on or simply let go. So that one I love you meant a lot more to me.

[Afrohair in reply to Questioning123]

Ok sorry to hear that I hope you find someone right for you at the right time for now concentrate on enjoying your company set goals which you wouldn’t have done relationships are hard work !good luck Hun x

[Questioning123 in reply to Afrohair]

Thank you