Feeling down

[Darknlovely504]

I'm tired of being used and hurt. I can't seem to meet ppl that's genuine. I'm about to start staying to myself I wish I didn't have to come in contact with others.

[HP123hi]

if you need a friend im here. talking to people distracts my anxiety so I’m all ears lol

[Darknlovely504 in reply to HP123hi]

I usually find solace in that to but sometimes it backfires so I'm fading away from others little by little. Thanks

[Hidden]

I feel exactly the same way, especially lately... I put myself out there for someone I thought was truly good when he was going through a breakup and even sacrificed time at work to be there for this person because I really liked and respected this person. So I'd go over to his place during late hours when he needed support. He was always very friendly and supportive towards me as well. Eventually the friendship turned into something a little more since I started going over to his place regularly... so we slept together a few times and still acted like good friends. But then he all of a sudden, our of nowhere just stopped talking to me without any explanation. His last text to me was asking me how I was doing and that we would see each other soon. So I feel completely stupid, naive, used, and heartbroken. It's hard to find a genuinely good person and feels like there's no one to talk to about anything personal. It's hard to trust people...

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Hidden]

Hi. I've been through that as well so I know how u feel. It sucks! I would block his number and move on he probably went back to his ex honey. Or he's waiting on her to come back. Nevertheless he's s jerk.

[Hidden in reply to Darknlovely504]

Thanks hun, it's nice to see that others have gone through the same or feel the same. But it's still hard and sad feeling all alone... why does it seem so difficult to find good people?

[Darknlovely504 in reply to Hidden]

Chivalry is almost dead etc not much love left in the world

[rothko]

Totally have been there where it feels like all hope is lost. It’s hard to meet people nowadays. And it’s okay to have some alone time and periods. I really treasure my alone time now.

That being said i do hope you meet someone good soon! All it takes is one person to walk into your life and inspire optimism.

Additionally I can say when I was feeling like everyone I met was just honestly horrible, I did some volunteering - most of those people are nicer! Not always one hundred percent genuine but Gave me more hope.

I just want to give you a hug! If you want to talk further we are here.

[Darknlovely504 in reply to rothko]

I'm to the point where I really don't care anymore I've wasted so much time on non sense and fools I don't have nth else to give. I'm burnt out

[emg2806]

i’m in the same boat. i’ve been down on myself with that lately as well i’m going to be 30 years old and i have 2 kids and i see everyone having relationships and moving on and i can’t find a normal person that’s truly there for the right reasons ! we’re prob way to good for these people anyway that use us. apparently good things come to those who wait so i’ll wait along side ya! keep ya head up there’s someone out there looking for you.

[Darknlovely504 in reply to emg2806]

I feel the way u do. It makes u numb inside and cold hearted. I just don't know what to do anymore. Good luck honey