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My boyfriend is breaking up with me

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The title says it all. And I’m so depressed. I don’t know what to do and what to say to prevent this break up. I love him. We talked but I feel like it’s still bothering him. I don’t know if I should fight for him to stay. I promised I would change. He said he just wanted things to go back to the way it was... I guess back to when our relationship wasn’t that deep and all it was was jokes. Maybe it’s better that way.. I should keep my problems to myself. Or on this app

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Be thankful because things don't stay the same or go back to the way they were. We are ever evolving and changing emotionally, physically, financially. I don't know how old you are but you need someone that loves you as you are and can adapt easily. Life is ever changing and thank God for that. We have our ups and downs trying to adapt to the changes like children for instance. It takes a true bond to pull through everything life hands us. Let it go. Now you can move on to a better situation or all on your own.

Breaking up is really hard, but if your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you because you have changed then he is not the right person for you. Every day we change as a person depending on our experiences, no one stays the same.

Having divorced my husband because he wouldn't help me when I was I'll, I know how hard this is. I begged him to stay, but I am now glad that he didn't because I know now that although I went through some horrible times with my anxiety and depression, that he was not the guy I needed in my life.

It will hurt for a while, but you can get through this hurt. Please change only be cause you want to for you and not because of another person. Be true to yourself, be who you want to be.

I am glad I moved forward and I know I am a stronger person now because I looked forward and not tried to be who I was before I got I'll. You can be a stronger person too.

Hi, breakups are really hard and not a fun thing. don’t bottle up your emotions talk it out to someone you trust, healing takes time, make plans with friends! don’t hide in your room all day that makes it worse

If he doesn't understand you then he don't deserve you, he doesn't love you. Then way to stay with him? If now there are problems between you how will be after few years? More problems. Leave him, he don't deserve you.


Breakups are never easy. When I broke up with my past boyfriend because of another woman, I was heartbroken and cried a lot. During that time, I had a friend who was always with me, I can talk to her about how I truly feel and she uplifted me with positive words. Though it was a painful journey but I was able to let go of him.

I’m sorry you are going through this. It will be helpful if you have a friend that you can talk to or you can post here anytime. I hope by sharing how you feel will help you to stay better. Praying for you for peace and things will work out fine with you. God bless.

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