Delight in my pain

[BrownEyesBlue]

My friggin niece messaged me again tonight with absolutely no other intention but to make a mockery out of the relationship I had with my ex. Yes he was who he was and I’m trying to move on.

But how dare she message me to remind me of our anniversary. Of the date he moved in with me. Of the shortness of our relationship. It was 9 months but it was ours. And I loved every second. And I’m hurting now and doing my best to move on.

Then told me to “calm down and don’t get heated” when I asked why she felt the need to point it out and asked why she messaged me like that.

Then proceeded to tell me I always have to look past a statement and panic over a message and there was no need.

Like missy you’re 23. I’m 37.

The most hilarious thing is that she said she messaged me to tell me that I, me, the person in the relationship, had the dates wrong LOL Like what?

No honey. It was you trying to get a dig in and be the “mean girl”.

I cut it off with telling her that lately it seems she likes to point out my shortcomings. I wasn’t panicked and I’m pretty calm. And I only asked why she felt the need to message me that.

I said goodnight and wished her a good day tomorrow.

No response. Thankfully. I’m tired of being a push over and being walked over. I’ll never be mean but I’m going to stick up for myself from now on. I’m just so sick of it.

[Mary-intussuception]

Why are you letting her get to you?

Ban her number.

Or just ignore, don't reply.

[Gjkas]

Brown Eyes, why don't you casually wind her up. Just say something like.

OH ,YOU SOUND SO JEALOUS OF WHAT IVE HAD, THAT YOU HAVEN'T.

WHY DON'T YOU JUST GO GET A LIFE.

Then ban her number.

Don't lose your temper or swear, because by doing it like this, she'll be tamping

Good Luck. Gjkas.

[BrownEyesBlue in reply to Gjkas]

Thanks.

[Gjkas in reply to BrownEyesBlue]

You're Welcome. 😚

[NWGal]

In my opinion you might want to set up some personal boundaries. Loving yourself enough to say "enough is enough" is important to your well being. Good karma friend.

[BrownEyesBlue in reply to NWGal]

Thanks. I think they’re starting to realize the same crap they always pulled will no longer fly.