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I haven't been on here in a long time, I've been a bad place and still am today...so if you have any positive energy, good vibes, thoughts you could send them my way. I need all I can get.

You are all just awesome people! And if you're struggling I'm right there with you and if you're in a good place stay there and enjoy! ❤

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walking_wonder

I'm sorry that you're struggling. I've recently started meditating, and it's been very helpful for me. I downloaded the app Insight Timer. There are thousands of free meditations. There is a paid option, but I didn't do it. It lets you do all the courses. There is one free course that you could try about learning how to meditate. I hope you feel better!

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Robinrenae in reply towalking_wonder

Thank you walking_wonder, .and thanks for the app info, I'll check it out. Glad you found something that is helping you. Peace and love to you

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deana_m

I feel you, I envy those in a good place right now. Wish I could reach the surface again but I am so deep in.

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Robinrenae in reply todeana_m

Sorry to hear that deana, I'm swimming with you. Message me if you need someone to talk to or just listen. Sending you positive vibes and (((hugs)))

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Booklover0219

Hang in there. Think about a time when you will feel ok again. Focus on that instead of how you feel right now. Best wishes to you for some inner peace soon.

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Robinrenae

Thank you Booklover, I appreciate your message. Wishes for inner peace is a great gift.

Love and peace to you ❤

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Sunshine425

💚💙💜💗 you will get through!!! We always survive even when its not easy...sending positive thoughts from eastern US!

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Robinrenae in reply toSunshine425

Thank you so much Dreamer ❤❤❤

Positive vibes coming back to you from the same place!

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Sunshine425 in reply toRobinrenae

Nice!!! Im in CT🙂

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Robinrenae in reply toSunshine425

I'm in Va. 😊

You seem to be a lovely person with struggles like the rest of us here ,

Sending you positive vibes and hoping you have respite from your mental challenges

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Robinrenae in reply tolillyofthevalley37

Thank you lillyofthevalley, and you are lovely for taking the time to respond to a stranger in need of some comfort.

Lpve and peace to you❤

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No1wthayla

I hear you Robinrenae. Keep fighting and I will do the same. It's been a long time since I've seen the bright side of life. I keep forgetting to be grateful for all that I do have. And grateful for the help I do receive from others like my friends and family who have been my support. And this forum ... without it I think I would have given up already. Hugs and prayers to you.

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Robinrenae in reply toNo1wthayla

Thank you for reminding me about gratitude, I need to write down those things I'm grateful for today. If you'd like to talk message me any time.

Peace and love to you❤

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Agora1

Hey Robinrenae :) I'm glad you reached out to your virtual family.

You are never alone because we are always just a message away.

Take a listen to this amazing video on YouTube. It will confirm how

people are sent to us in our lifetime for a reason

"People come into your Life for a Reason"

by jeeprzKeeprz

Sending you a hug :) xx

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Robinrenae in reply toAgora1

Thank you so much Agora! You are a very caring person and I love reading your reaponses to others bit enjoy one from you more. 😊

I'll check that video out.

Peace and love to you. (((Hugs))))

I can still remember being where you are for 3 years straight. And it's not an easy place to be. Literally taking it day by day, and finding at least 3 things that made my day better. Sometimes it was as simple as not being cut off in traffic, or just having someone smile at you when you feel invisible. It took a long time for me to get out of the depths you're talking about. After 2 inpatient hospitalizations and one overdose during that time frame, I have slowly started becoming more like myself. I know that might not be inspiring because it definitely took a long time, but the point I was trying to make was, it eventually does get better. And the longer it took for me, the more I learned to appreciate and enjoy the good days, and eventually the good days started outweighing the bad. So I hope you get there soon, and find a little bit of joy in your days! God bless!

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Robinrenae

I'm sorry that you have known these struggles, but really glad you are in a better place now. I'm not giving up, I'm still swimming. ❤

Thank you for sharing your story with me.

Love and light to you

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NWGal

Sweet Robin, I'm so glad you're back! I hope communicating with us will bring a calming presence. We're in this together. I find helping others to be very cathartic and gets my mind off my own mental health issues for awhile. Good karma coming your way my friend!

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Robinrenae in reply toNWGal

Thank you NWGal ❤ People like you help a lot. Sending good karma your way too. Wishing you a smooth and happy day today.

Love and light to you my friend

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Michael8072

Hi Robinrenae.

Sorry you are struggling right now. Sending you so much light positive energy vibes and nothing but good thoughts. Sending you hugs. Hoping your struggles lift soon and you can find some peace. We are all together in this you are never alone! We are always here.

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Robinrenae in reply toMichael8072

Thank you Micheal, not feeling alone is a blessing. I appreciate your message and hope you have a wonderful day!

Love and light to you ❤

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Michael8072 in reply toRobinrenae

Thank you Robinrenae! I hope you have a wonderful day today as well!! Sending hugs and good thoughts!!

I am struggling too. I just have to realize I can't make everyone else happy. I can do me and take care of my child. Other than that I can't help you if you are in a lousy mood taking it out on me. I know who I am and will still carry on and be positive. Have a good night.

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Robinrenae

I'm sorry you are struggling too. I hope things get better for you soon. Yes, I understand about making others happy, we have to set boundaries for our own well being. You got this!

Love and light to you ❤

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Thank you

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fauxartist

hang in there honey....your a fighter and really deserve credit for all you go through everyday...it would take a saint to do what your doing....I know I wouldn't be strong enough....

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Robinrenae in reply tofauxartist

I love you faux ❤

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fauxartist in reply toRobinrenae

Love you too kiddo....it's a tough haul.... some days harder than others....I wish you had help with what you go through every day. We are going through a lot here right now and it's a struggle, but nothing compared to yours. I do believe everyone’s struggles deserve to be validated and not compared....but in reality....you got it tough my friend and I've only got to deal with adult children not wanting to grow the F up. It's a big difference, I can just shut my door, and you don't have that luxury.

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Robinrenae in reply tofauxartist

Thank you for that faux. I appreciate your support so much. And yes the struggle is real for everyone......can only do the best we can with what we got I know. Sending peaceful vibes your way for the day. 🌺

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Michael8072

Hi. How are you feeling today?

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Robinrenae in reply toMichael8072

Forgot to ask you, how are things going at work now?

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Robinrenae

Hi Michael,

Thank you for checkong in on me. That means a lot to me. ❤ I'm doing some better today. Took a long walk, it helped with my anxiety a bit.

How are doing today?

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Michael8072 in reply toRobinrenae

I’m glad to hear that! I’m glad the walk helped with your anxiety! How was the walk did you see anything wild?

I’m doing well today thanks. Had my morning coffee and was just looking out my window at this windy beautiful day!!

Work had its moments this weekend. Was intense and busy. Have the day off today and in just relax mode. Thanks for asking.

What are you up to today?

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Robinrenae

I live in town so I was walking there. So, I didn't see anything wild, except a couple of squirrels. :) They were cuties!

Hope you enjoyed your day off. Sounds like you needed it after the weekend you had.

I guess you're back to the grind stone today, huh? Have a good one! 😊

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Knackeredknowle

Hiya, I feel your pain and know we are all here for you.

Happy Chinese New Year to you.

I definitely know that feeling of trying to feel positive, but can't find it.

Today the sun is shining and feeling the warmth of expecting Spring (here in Wet West of Uk) I'm feeling hopeful.

I'm send positive energy your way in hope you have a better day and you find something that works for you.

Love and hugs

Maxi xxx

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