WHY

[Jack112288]

My situation won’t stay away and I’m not strong enough to keep him away I know he’s a toxic person for me but my feelings won’t allow me to keep him away I’ve noticed he’s a trigger for me depression and anxiety kick it hard for me when he’s around or even in my life when I don’t talk to him or see him I’m doing good I’m okay but as soon as he steps back into play I’m at square one I wish I could turn my feelings off and just move on from him I’ve blocked him from everything and he still shows up or find a way to call me I just want him to stay away but he know I really do care about him and he play on that

[Kasra_]

you need to kill your feelings and being serious before it get too late

[Jack112288 in reply to Kasra_]

Yea I know and it’s getting worse

[Sabio77]

my dear friend, if you blocked him and he is still showing up, then its time to take it a step further. it is not normal behavior for a person to show up in different places after they have been blocked and the relationship is over. especially if you know that he is a toxic person. it is a cycle that is not good and we both agree on it. find it within yourself to recognize its time to take it a step further. when a person is toxic, and its over, those feelings of I think I still care are normally called feelings of empathy for the person. most of the time not always but most of the time, like we talked about, it is best to get assistance to help you move forward in your life away from him. tell someone who has authority, possible order of protection. it is legally called stocking if he is showing up after being blocked and its been made clear that its over. please think about it for your own safety and sanity. I know that you want to move on and stay positive. this is a way the ex likes to still have some type of control over the other person even after the fact. they want to still control the emotional rollercoaster it creates. I highly encourage you. I know. I have been thru it. please break the vicious cycle. hugs. keep us posted how you are doing. hugs my friend. I believe in you.