Hi everyone !
I would love ideas on how to end a friendship. I have someone who I thought it was a friend but after learning boundaries I know she was just using me .
The problem is , she leaves very close to my house and we have had a really close relationship for the past 5 years. Our families know each other , we have spent Holidays together , we have gone on vacations together . We live in a small town and we know a lot of the same people . I have asked her for space , I am constantly saying no to her invites but she doesn’t get it .
She makes me physically sick ! She stopped by today , unannounced, and after she left I am having so much anxiety !
I wish I had learned boundaries when I was a teenager because in my 40s is just too hard 😩