So Alone & Scared

[SA192461]

Ohh how I wish a family member would call me, even just to check on me? I reach out, always remember my kids & grand kids on their Birthdays & Anniversary’s but they just don’t seem to care about me😢I don’t understand anything anymore, I feel like I’m all alone in the world..Love my family so much..Ohh God, where are they??😭😭

[Hidden]

I'm sorry. I'm 46 and have no family to talk to at all. We have been estranged for decades. It's sad. I'm lonely without them. I have a sister and a brother out there somewhere. They don't k ow my daughter at all.

Do you have friends to talk to?

[lottiejemma in reply to Hidden]

Lots of us in the same boat have courage, just do not allow bitterness into you, how they feel or act is not your business, Take care of you, Love , ---Lottie x

[Hidden in reply to lottiejemma]

Thank you for understanding. I think I got past the bitterness that I had. The more I am around my husband's family, the more longing for them I feel. It's impossible to make someone care about you when clearly they don't. I have been through many tragedies I know my sister is aware of and yet she has never reached out even just to say hello. Now I'm just at the sad stage with it all. But I am strong and I am grateful for the good that I do have in my life.

[Marielle1]

Hello my friend, don’t wait fora special occasion call them. Make plans to visit . Text is the thing now

So easy to send a text. One door closes and another opens. No one likes a sad face be happy smile.

Lots o hug for you❤️❤️🎶🙏🏻🍷

[lottiejemma]

Bless you , it is so hard to bear when family ignore you , I go through the same , funny how we all relate on Health Unlocked, one way or another, sometimes , I have found, we have to LET GO , I look on this site as My Family that I can pour my heart out to and feel the love and care, We are NOT alone --EVER ,HUGS -- Lottie

[SA192461 in reply to lottiejemma]

They love me, they just don’t know what to say or do.

[lottiejemma in reply to SA192461]

HUGS

[SA192461 in reply to lottiejemma]

Thank you lottiejemma💕Hugs right back to you

[Florida1959]

Hey SA, I am reaching out to you, talk to me, xx sending hugs 🤗

[SA192461 in reply to Florida1959]

Thank you! I’m just at a loss for words...

[Florida1959 in reply to SA192461]

Ok tell me 5 things about yourself x

[SA192461 in reply to Florida1959]

I’m caring, loyal, opinionated(used to be)scared & stuck.

[Florida1959 in reply to SA192461]

And 5 more positive things, xx

[knittingninja]

Remember that not all of us have the words to write to help you, but by reading your post, many of us can identify with what you're going through.

[SA192461 in reply to knittingninja]

Thank you knittingninja! I appreciate show of caring, I think that’s what pulls us all together, especially on this forum😊