Pulling ourselves up again

[Starrlight]

It’s ok... to fail because you’ve tried and that is a triumph not in vain. It’s okay. Go out of your comfort zone anyway. You are brave and your fears will subside with patience. I know it’s difficult and after every difficulty comes ease. Listen to your soul as it is wise.

[JAYnLA]

This helped me today. Thank you!

[Starrlight in reply to JAYnLA]

❤️ thank you I am glad it helped. Best to you JAYnLA our souls are wise and tell us everything we need to know.

[Hidden in reply to Starrlight]

But it takes the wise sometimes to impart wisdom and then when one person learns they teach someone else.

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Yeah it’s good to seek wisdom elsewhere at times from those who have had a similar experience or knowledge on the subject at hand yes but we also know ourselves better than anyone else can do at times we also need our own wisdom.

[Hidden]

Proverbs 4:7 King James Version (KJV)

7 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.

Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you.

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Thank YOU

[Stilltrying_]

Lovely photo and yes lets all practice self compassion today, including you Thank you for the lovely post. x

[Starrlight in reply to Stilltrying_]

Thanks yes let’s practice compassion now...and it’s so nice to read you Stilltrying I think of ya ...how are you doing?

[JEG325]

Hey, my excellent friend, your words are timely and have much meaning to me. I had a major meltdown late last night and it was in part because I failed to say and do the exact right things concerning DM. The emotional pressure combined with a number of other minor but emotional things finally got the better of me. I haven't melted down in over 2 months and I thought all that was through. But, my chatline friends & my sweetie helped me get over it. Late last night I had a minor relapse and DenverHappy, another good friend of mine helped me though that. The most prevalent message I was given was quite simple: 'I am only human and I can only do so much. I am not perfect and I cannot take on everyone else's problems without eventually harming myself.' I am still somewhat embarrassed that I lost it twice in one night. I am trying to practice some compassion for myself right now. Trust me it's hard. I hope you are okay, my bright shining Star. From here on out, I am ceasing 80%+ of my activity on H/U. But, I promise I will keep in touch with you. (((((HUGS FOR MY AWESOME FRIEND STARRLIGHT)))))!!!!

[Starrlight in reply to JEG325]

((((((JEG)))))) best to you always... I’m sorry to hear you were having much trouble. Hopefully it will be a long stretch of good health mentally spiritually physically.

[JEG325 in reply to Starrlight]

Thank you, my extra, extra good friend! Have a blessed evening!

[gerrerd]

Very good advice, xx

[Starrlight in reply to gerrerd]

(((((Hug)))))

[gerrerd in reply to Starrlight]

xxxx

[Ddorne]

Thank you Starrlight, I need this lately. God bless you.

LD

[Starrlight in reply to Ddorne]

Awww God bless you

[Hidden]

yes..getting out of your comfort zone...wow..that picture is beautiful..

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

Thanks awesome you 😎

[Sillysausage234]

Yeah it’s not the winning it’s the taking part that counts star 😊.......unless it’s football ⚽️....or soccer to you .nice picture thanks

[Starrlight]

Just participating the way I want seems too difficult. I’m so tired out. I feel so baaaad and I want to make my kiddos Spring break to be a blast for them you know? I’m finding it hard to keep running maybe I should play goalie, eh? Instead of running after the ball I’ll just chill till it comes to me.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Starrlight]

Oh yeah goalie is a very important position star,just an observation but your overthinking 🤔..the kids not having a blast thing I’m sure as long as you’re there that’s a blast for them ...I got windy weather too 😏💨I prefer sunshine 🙋🏻‍♂️

[Starrlight in reply to Sillysausage234]

Overthinking eh? Yes I am, thank you. Yeah sunshine is the very best! Hope you get some soon! Where do you live if that’s not too personal?

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Starrlight]

England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿...plenty of rain ☔️ 😏

[Starrlight in reply to Sillysausage234]

Then I think I’m in England too 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 ☔️

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Starrlight]

Haha you ok I’m having a miserable day today can’t seem to snap out of it..lots of pain also

[Starrlight in reply to Sillysausage234]

🙈 oh no Pain from what? I’m having pretty damn constant mood swings.

[Starrlight]

Excruciating pain, so depressed. I don’t feel like me. At least we’ll be getting high winds, Nature’s ways soothe and distract.

[Hidden in reply to Starrlight]

lol...big hug

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

What’s the big idea buddy, are you laughing at me 😆

[Hidden in reply to Starrlight]

yeah with the high winds, natures way, soothe and distract..💨

[Starrlight in reply to Hidden]

I know, I know haha 😂