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[Jellyfish21]

Ive been feeling super down . I know that im only 26 and i should not be thinking about children or maybe i am... i just feel i am

Ready to be a mom my bf on the other hand wants to wait for 30. Everyone around are pregnant and having kids . Of course im happy for them i just wish it could be me also ..... it makes me sad that maybe i wont have a baby or maybe waiting a long time makes me sad :/

[brokenlight]

I’m sorry you’ve been feeling down.

[froggymom88]

You and the to be father must be ready and committed to caring for a baby. Maybe use this time to reflect if he is the best person for you and to make a family with.

[Jellyfish21 in reply to froggymom88]

thank you for the advice . I have been looking at this as a sign instead of a negative thing

[froggymom88 in reply to Jellyfish21]

Hugs

[September0916]

Hi! I hear what you are saying. I know you are ready to be a mom but it is so important that your boyfriend is ready as well. My husband and I have been going through fertility and what I want more than life itself is to have a child. We have been trying to focus one eachother and the love we have, we talk about our future children which also helps him because he is scared as well.

Maybe try to focus on the love you have for eachother, plan a trip, talk about your future and your future children. Express how you feel with out hounding him about having a child. This may help ease your mind and slowly talk him into it. (But before 30) Goodluck!

[Jellyfish21 in reply to September0916]

I love this advice !!! Thank u! Yes we have alot of love for one another but maybe we need to focus on more on us than a baby right now per say . !!

[September0916 in reply to Jellyfish21]

Let me know how it goes 😌