Frustrated

[DREAMYGIRL]

Well I met this guy and first I thought I love him but later when I got to know him Better, my whole perception changed because he and I are totally opposite person. His thought even is so strange. And I know if we would have a fight, he will leave me because he can't handle fights, tantrums. I told him I want a break of 1 month to figure out what I want, because I am so confused , Do I love him or it's just a attachment because I am missing him and it feels like that I have lost something important. I am not happy, but I should be happy without him. I really want to cry, but not even getting tears.

[user479]

Happiness has to come from within you - but if your gut is telling you that there’s something off about this/it’s not what you were hoping for, you owe it to yourself to move on because you are an amazing human who deserves someone who will make you feel yourself and bring out the happiness.

[DREAMYGIRL in reply to user479]

Thanks

[-Sasha-]

It's ok to have doubts, we all do. I think you did the right thing by being honest with him because you were confused about your feelings. Sometimes taking a step back from the situation helps us see it better.

One thing we have but often ignore is intuition. If he's no good for you, deep down you can feel it. But please don't base your decision off of assumptions of his reactions. You aren't giving either one of you a chance that way. I hope your are able to figure out what you want and in the end it all works out for you. Best wishes

~S~

[DREAMYGIRL in reply to -Sasha-]

Thanks

[jgal3]

I hear that you are frustrated and confused about this relationship. It seems like you are not sure if you love him or not because he is not who you thought he was at first and he is so different from you. I can understand why you would feel sad about suspending a relationship that you were hoping was going somewhere but now it is at a standstill. It is understandable that a bit of grief would be involved while you detach from what your expectations were of the relationship. It's great that you are taking time to re-evaluate what you want to give to the relationship and get out of it. It may be helpful to write down the things that are important to you and the qualities that are important for a man to have in a relationship. Writing always helps me to clarify things whenever I am confused. Relationships are a big emotional investment so it's perfectly natural to take the time to decide if a relationship is going to be worth the work and risk involved. Here's a really cool list that may help you get started with your writing: bit.ly/2pcI2Oh I especially like the first article about what to look for in a spouse. Hope all goes well for you. I will be praying for you.

[DREAMYGIRL]

Thank you so much