Feeling a little sad and upset

[Kat63]

Today is the day I take my cat to my aunt’s house. (Backstory: I moved in with my boyfriend and our two cats don’t get along.) I love my cat and I’m going to miss him; and I’m still a little upset with my bf - although we agreed the least bad solution was to rehome my cat.

I’m so tired of hassles and stress and bad things happening. Everything is happening at once right now. I’m unemployed, and that’s stressful. I just moved - and moving is stressful. My bf and I have had a long relationship, and recently agreed to move back in together and try to work things out between us. Working on the relationship is the right thing to do, but that is never easy. And the deal with the cats on top of everything else.

[Hidden]

I'm sorry. Hang in there. 😊

[Kat63 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks. Yes, I just have to get through it.

[Hidden in reply to Kat63]

One thing at a time.

[rothko]

I was in a similar situation - moving (for my partner) and unemployed. It’s a lot to go through all that change. But I hope you give yourself some credit for working on things and not taking the easy path! You’re not alone! I have been working on my relationship and I have to say it’s one of the best things I’ve done. Rewarding on so many levels.

Hope you feel better.

[Kat63 in reply to rothko]

Thank you. It’s great to hear from people who have done this.

[RiderontheStorm]

The cats will get along if you give them time. I have 3 and have had many cats for 30 years. Give them a chance. GF's come and go but my CATS always stay.

[Hidden in reply to RiderontheStorm]

I agree. I would give them a chance unless there is some kind of health issue with one. I have had several and they work it out or find their own space.

[Hidden]

I’m sorry for your struggles Kat.

I hope things get easier for you as you settle in..and things fall into place

Good wishes xx