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Hi I have had anxiety and depression for all my life and sometime I feel like killing myself because I think I am fat and ugly . I just want to feel loved

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Well gitzel you're welcome here....we understand how you feel...probably more than most...and you are loved.

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Thanks so much

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peanutbuttercup

You are beautiful to us just for joining our community. We will ove you for the support you offer, and in turn we will offer you ours. Welcome aboard!

A lovely soul is what’s most desired of a person! I’m sure you have one! Believe in yourself and work on your self-esteem with a therapist. You’re capable and worthy! Think about what’s good in your life and don’t think about the bad. We love you here! Share anytime! ☀️💐☀️

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Thanks

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gogogirl

Sorry you feel like that. Welcome. Have you tried walking or even joining a group such as NAMI to meet others?

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No have not and what is NAMI

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National Alliance on Mental Illness. You can google it, call and see if there is a chapter in your area.

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OH ok and thanks

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Naynay2

Don't do anything that you regret later. I tried taking my life 2 years ago . And when I think about it I thank God for sparing me because in June 2018 I got to see my daughter walk the stage for her high school graduation which I would have missed. I know things look bad now but it will get better.

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RAB888

Hi,

Whenever you have a problem, ask yourself these 3 questions:

1. Is it true?

2. Is it not true?

3. Am I just imagining?

My guess is you are just using your imagination

We all want to feel loved. The secret is to start loving yourself first ( with your internal self talk).

All problems are illusions

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teaparty

I totally understand how that feels. Im going through this myself at the moment too. Keep talking we are listening. We should be loved for who we are not what people think we should be. Have you sought some help. Im at the start of what i know is going to be painful long journey. I bet you are beautiful. Keep in touch x

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HeartBShep

Hi. I'm the same it's like a mantra in my head that goes around and around. Your fat, your ugly, your useless ,your stupid, your worthless. It's a hard thing to ignore some days it's deafening on others it's finding and fighting with evidence to the contrary. Have you got anyone to talk through how your feeling ? We are all here to support you in any way we can. Try to be kind to your self. Xx

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hrow

Hi! First, of all know that you are loved by so many and God most of all! Second, if you ever feel like you are going to hurt yourself call the Suicide Hot line 1-800-273-8255. They are there 24/7 for you even when others are not. Third, get with a pastor or counselor. Someone needs to be helping you and working through what is causing your wanting to leave this world. Trained kind people can help you and get you to a place where you don't want to hurt yourself. Last of all think about your future and how you can do great things! Please take care of yourself! YOU mean so much to all of us who are replying to you!

H

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