What the hell do I do?: My boyfriend is... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

93,047 members86,933 posts

What the hell do I do?

MadyH profile image
5 Replies

My boyfriend is in the Air Force he is lovley and I love him but he lives in California which is super hard because i am in Nebraska. He is offering to transfer down here so that can go to my dream school and pursue my dream career. The catch is he has to go to Korea for a year before he can transfer here. He plans to propose sometime I dont know when but should I let him transfer or should I make him stay where he is so that I dont feel guilty? Ladies and gentlemen please give me your opinions!!!

Written by
MadyH profile image
MadyH
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
5 Replies

Let him decide. It is his decision to make. If it is important to him to be near you why would you feel guilty? You aren’t twisting his arm are you?

MadyH profile image
MadyH in reply to

I am not in fact I am hoping he doesnt do it to be honest. I feel guilty because I feel I do not deserve to be treated this good. I feel I am unworthy to be loved. I dont feel I could ever be loved or treated right because I hate myself and everything about me.

in reply toMadyH

Maybe you need to address why you feel this way about yourself? Obviously this guy thinks you are worthy. My point being what more proof do you need that you are worthy? If he didn’t feel you weren’t he wouldn’t have made the offer. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

MadyH profile image
MadyH in reply to

Thank you. i got back on my medicine to see if that will help. I am really trying.

in reply toMadyH

Hope you are feeling better.

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

i do not want to be a mom.

ive been really scared to talk about this but being able to do it anonymously makes it easier. i am...

I dont know what to do anymore

My mother abuses my grandfather every single day. I wake up around 6 or 7 am with her screaming at...
Bibas profile image

What rights do I have what should I do?

I'm feeling so overwhelmed. 2 days ago i was almost assaulted at work. I'm a Supervisor and me and...
Sadegirl profile image

what do I do?

im never gonna me loved. there is this guy i like and i feel like he only views me as a object for...

What do i do

My boyfriend just told me he'll never ever feel like he should be alive or happy because of me......

Moderation team

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.