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Hey guys,

So I had one of the hardest nights in a long time last night, and I really needed someone, and the person who really understood and promised she would always be there, just wasn’t. She’s gotten more and more distant and I feel like it’s my fault. She’s been through similar issues and I know she understands but she left me anyway. It doesn’t help that I feel ridiculously lonely all the time, which leads to self harm, I even disabled all my social media’s bc every time I look at them I get depressed that I don’t have anyone to really talk to. I dunno what to do

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Mireyaozzieg

am here u can message me

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Megglerock

Don’t blame yourself. People can get busy and have their own issues. Maybe she just couldn’t help. That’s okay, we all get sidetracked or can’t keep a serious promise because life has a good way of interrupting. Try to not think of it as a slight, and remember you are a valued friend and person.

It’s good you’re here, we can all do our best to help you and listen/talk. We all need a backup!

Ri-hh,

I have felt like this many times. Like I push people away. I am sure your person just has there own stuff going on and maybe wasn't able to be there for you.

I am actually experiencing the opposite of this right now. My friend having a lot of anxiety. & I just haven't been able to be there for her Like I was previously. I am drained & using all my energy to get through the day.

This community will be here for you!

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jesca18

I know that feeling all too well; not having anyone.

I have friends but they are not always available when I need them. They are busy with their own lives. I wish I had my own life.. siblings or a family of my own. I have deleted my social media accounts for the same reason. Very lonely life and don’t know what to do about it. Message me any time!

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vinman12

Same here, I'm down to a hand full of people that still want to bother with me.

I'm glad I joined this group, it's a good place to be.

You have us to talk to. This is what this group is for. You don't have to feel so alone and there's 24/7 support here. Take care of yourself.

You are not alone, we are here for you.

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