So I had one of the hardest nights in a long time last night, and I really needed someone, and the person who really understood and promised she would always be there, just wasn’t. She’s gotten more and more distant and I feel like it’s my fault. She’s been through similar issues and I know she understands but she left me anyway. It doesn’t help that I feel ridiculously lonely all the time, which leads to self harm, I even disabled all my social media’s bc every time I look at them I get depressed that I don’t have anyone to really talk to. I dunno what to do
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Don’t blame yourself. People can get busy and have their own issues. Maybe she just couldn’t help. That’s okay, we all get sidetracked or can’t keep a serious promise because life has a good way of interrupting. Try to not think of it as a slight, and remember you are a valued friend and person.
It’s good you’re here, we can all do our best to help you and listen/talk. We all need a backup!
Ri-hh,
I have felt like this many times. Like I push people away. I am sure your person just has there own stuff going on and maybe wasn't able to be there for you.
I am actually experiencing the opposite of this right now. My friend having a lot of anxiety. & I just haven't been able to be there for her Like I was previously. I am drained & using all my energy to get through the day.
I know that feeling all too well; not having anyone.
I have friends but they are not always available when I need them. They are busy with their own lives. I wish I had my own life.. siblings or a family of my own. I have deleted my social media accounts for the same reason. Very lonely life and don’t know what to do about it. Message me any time!
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