Lack of interest

[Teresaq]

Hello everyone,

I have no motivation, no goals, I stay at home all the time. Stopped going out with husband and friends. My brain wants to do alot but my body just not into it. I feel drained all the time. Stopped working 3yrs ago, do to health reasons gain 15pounds. Just lazy. Is this depression or lack of motivation. I'm alone most of the time. Plenty of friends but just choose to do nothing. I lost my self, I was never this way also social, parties, dinner, drinks..always the first to be involved..now nothing.

[Run4Health2020]

This definitely sounds like depression.

Make an appointment to see your doctor and have a chat with him/her. I'd ask for a CBC as well (complete blood count). You could have some really low Iron or vitamin deficiency.

It also could be age related (I am 51 and Ive recently put on weight and I have less energy). How old are you?

Remember if you do have depression, there is loads and loads that can be done to help you and make you feel much better (more energy, etc.)

[Haider25nov in reply to Run4Health2020]

Dear you are right cure and i am also same problem

[Teresaq in reply to Run4Health2020]

Hi I'm 47 yrs old, I feel my body is taking control sounds weird but its difficult from one day to next. I sway internally sitting sleeping driving. So I choose to not drive to be safe. One day at a time.

[Run4Health2020 in reply to Teresaq]

That is very odd. Your symptoms sound a bit unusual. Especially the swaying bit. Have you been tests for Lyme's disease?

[Teresaq in reply to Run4Health2020]

Hello, no test for lyme disease, I live in southern California right by beach..I dont hike nor I'm out doors. I've never been bitten by insect of that nature..I'm thinking its possibly my ears. Have vng tests in 2 weeks. Hope doctors can figure things out.

Just very frustrating.

[Hidden]

Aww sweety I'm the same way. Very nervous and not motivated. I'm starting a new antidepressant tomorrow. I started with a Therapist and have seen some improvement in myself but it's still early. I sometimes lie down with my dog's and cover my head with a blanket I just can't deal.

I am here for you.

I started meditation and it's starting to work.

I do know what it feels like.

You're not alone and we are here for you.

[Teresaq in reply to Hidden]

Thanks I appreciate it. It's weird I dont feel depressed. I've been dealing with internal body swaying, I just understand what's happening I want to do much more but what I'm dealing with it's taking over. I'm here for you to. Things will be better for us..

[Rachel2535]

Can you think of a reason or moment when you decided to stop? Were you burned out, traumatized, grieving, or triggered? A counselor can help you get to the core of what caused your shut out. And they can help you get your motivation back. I tend to get unmotivated when I am hurt or betrayed. It knocks me down. I spend a few days with the Lord in prayer and worship music and then feel refreshed. There was a time though in my life that depression had a hold on me for 25 years. This is not true anymore thank God, but when I do find myself triggered I am sure to turn to what helps the most. Praying for you. -Rachel

[Teresaq in reply to Rachel2535]

Hi Rachel, I stopped due to health issues, have a counselor, however I seem to feel unworthy not being able to provide for my family however it's day by day and I do pray meditate and hopefully God will give me the strength to move forward so I may prosper. Thank you

[Rachel2535 in reply to Teresaq]

I am unable to work outside the home due to health issues. I have felt worthless also. I have found other ways to help others. Sounds like you are doing what you need to do to find wholeness. You are worth so much. Thank you for your reply.