Can somebody please help me? Im soo depressed and broken I can’t see anything in life or my future ,? Please help. can somebody cheer me up?

[ehh22]

Life is very difficult and I’m struggling everyday suffering from health issues. I would always locked my self in room and just feel broken and think about suicide. Suffering from health issues is what I’m dealing with .im young at mid 20. When seeing my friends all get married and have kids . I realized why Can’t I? Why why? My partner is far away from me and Visa is th biggest issue since he’s form poor country. I can’t work because I’m sick to sponsor him. Just feel broken and can’t see any anything. I’m losing my hope. I just hope I’ll be healed in the name of Jesus so I can have my normal life back. Somebody please suggest me should I suicide my self ?? If my partner is with me I would feel soo much better and have more strengths to face all the trials and difficulties in life. It’s the distance that’s the problems and the vsia process. Just feel heartburn 💔. Any suggestions, advice or what should I do with my life ? Please help friends.

[Hidden]

Hello ehh22!

Health issues are tough and can definitely lead to depression. I understand. Please don’t compare yourself to what other people are doing!

[ehh22 in reply to Hidden]

Yeh, but we planned to get married and have kids family life now all my dreams were fading away. Slowly losing hope. It’s very tough dealing with health issues , just suddenly happens in a blink of my eyes. Can’t do anything, just hope get well soon so I can start to work and plan again. Seeing all close friends enjoying their family life makes me feel more depressed. Why me ? I don’t know. Thanks for ur response. Gratitudefirst.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Oops! I did it again! Comparing yourself to other people makes you feel bad about yourself. Try to accept yourself just as you are right now. It’s ok 🙂 You can handle this! You’re strong! Don’t lose your hope. Hope is all around you but you have to look for it.

Try to accept that you’re “normal” life isn’t coming back...you’re starting over and forgetting about the past. Slowly start doing the things you need to do. Very slowly...be positive with your thoughts and don’t worry about past events or anything you might come up with about the future. Live now! Think of your difficulties in life as challenges, not a war! You can do this!

[ehh22 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks . I’ll try to think more positive and not negative.

[Hidden]

Hi, I’m so sorry you are feeling helpless and lonely. This will not last forever, you are going through a hard time right now. Are you on any medication to help with the depression? Have you joined a support group for your health issues? I watch videos by Douglas Bloch on YouTube he has been through major depressions and gotten through them. You spoke of Jesus, He certainly would not want you to commit suicide, He gave you a life to live.

[ehh22 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks soo much for your response Lynnaclice.

I’m not on any medication to help with depression. I haven’t joined any . Just here .i should start watching that video . I prayed to God all the time.i asked him why me? No answer. I’m feeling frustrated it right now and helpless. I hope I’ll get through this . God will help me through this. I don’t kkow if this is a test or what I don’t understand. I know I’ve done lots of mistakes from the past but I can’t go back and fix it anymore. Only I asked for forgiveness. I’m all confused, scared frighten and lonely and helpless. My partner isn’t here with me so it’s very tough for both of us due to distance. Life is hard.

[Hidden in reply to ehh22]

I highly recommend you see a doctor for your depression, I went through a very depressed time and got on medication that has helped me a lot. God helped me get through it. I don’t believe you are suffering because of things you’ve done. I’ve done some horrible things, really awful things and was very prideful about it too. God has been good to me and he has corrected me but did not hurt me. Please don’t believe the lie that you are being punished for being bad. You are a Christian and forgiven. Life is just hard especially when you are separated from someone you love.

[ehh22 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Lynnalice for your love and support. It really means soo much to me.

I do BELIVE that I’m being forgiven. Yeh life is hard when being separated from someone you love and especially when suffering from health problems and have no one beside you.

[Sillysausage234]

🙏just want to say hello🙋🏻‍♂️

[ehh22 in reply to Sillysausage234]

Hi Alan234.

[Hidden]

I felt the same when I had a long distant relationship..I decided to leave everything, and I mean everything, packed up and left overseas, 23 hour distance, to be with my so called love of my life..when we were finally together..things were very different than what I expected..long story short, I flew back home alone..you got to learn to live with yourself and not compare or rely on others..be strong..God has a plan for you..

[ehh22 in reply to Hidden]

Yeh, I’ve met him already. He’s such a nice and wonderful person. Took care of me while I was sick & spent all his $ for medical bills untill he became broke. My sickness just ruined my holiday trip. We have planned it everything for the future. And now since I’m back home and we had to live separate I just feel helpless without him. I don’t kkow when I’m gonna get better. Praying that I’ll be recovering soon. Thanks for ur advices.

[RainneLim]

Hi,

I hope you are feeling better. I understand the thought of committing. My boyfriend and I don't live as far as you do, but I understand what you mean about wishing he was here, and making it better. But it starts with you. Like Gratitude First said, comparing yourself to others and thinking about the future can make it worst.

I totally understand that feeling. I am comparing myself to my friends who are pursing their careers that they feel passionate and happy about. Where I am miserable at my job and cry everyday because I feel worthless. I pray everyday also. Instead of asking God why, have this prayer instead (and this is my prayer everyday).

"Lord. Thank you for the blessings you given me. Thank you for everything you have done. Please guide me and protect me for I am in a dark place. I am afraid, terrified. Terrified of my career. Terrified that I am not enough or strong enough to continue. Please guide me and protect me. I have my faith in you. Thank you. Amen."

Ever since I started praying like this, even though I am at my darkest thoughts, I pray and thank him. Also, my prayers are more like a conversation. I tell him I how feel, what is on my mind, and what is bothering me. And again I thank him, because I am alive and trying my best.

I know to some, they won't care too much in this post. And I feel vulnerable cause religion is a touchy topic. But pray, and I'll pray for you. Also, if Christianity or prayer does not feel like it is not doing much. That's okay. Look at other religious believes you believe will help you better go through your day. Religion, to me, is a lifestyle and a guidance of life. I hope you find comfort in this post that you are not alone, and you are very much welcome to reach out to me anytime.

[ehh22 in reply to RainneLim]

Hi Rainmelim, Thanks soo much for taking your time and shows the right way. Yes instead of questioning “Lord why me”? Have to thank him everyday for this things he has done for us. I’m Christian so I do BELIVE that With God everything is possible. But sometimes just feel helpless and losing hope. I would like to reach out to you through email etcs ? And Again, I thanks for your wonderful message. May god bless u.

[RainneLim in reply to ehh22]

I will personally message you through the Chat. And I am so glad I can help in some way or another.

[ehh22 in reply to RainneLim]

Thanks RainmeLim.