why bother

[Tatexo]

so me and my boyfriend just broke up and he blamed my anxiety and depression and I know I could go upstairs and take my dads heart medication and die right now

[ctmartin]

Why bother? Because you are worth it. You are unique and special and if your boyfriend couldn’t see that then he wasn’t right for you. You are going to find people who love and support you during the best of times and the worst of times. When relationships end, it’s really painful, but it’s just temporary. And please consider calling a suicide hotline if they have one available in your area.

Much love,

Cassidy

[Tatexo in reply to ctmartin]

Im just so angry with him like he told me he wouldn’t leave me just because of my anxiety and that’s exactly what he did

[ctmartin in reply to Tatexo]

It’s okay to feel angry. He let you down and that sucks. Just remember to not let that anger consume you. Feel it, acknowledge it, and then let it go. It won’t be easy, but it’s the first step towards moving on to better things.

[Hidden]

He’s obviously not the guy for you!! Don’t allow some guy the pleasure of dictating your future. You can and will get past this! Someone fresh, new, and compassionate will come your way. You’re better and stronger than that! Just give yourself an opportunity to get over him before you act impulsively. Sending you hugs!!

[Tatexo in reply to Hidden]

I wish I didnt have to rely on him but his aunt was my boss and we’re going to the same college next year

[Hidden in reply to Tatexo]

You’re stronger than you realize! You can make it work! I have faith in you...

[frijolero420]

girl let me tell you. I just moved to the greater Los Angeles area, and alot of ppl are on meth, well not me and the people i keep falling for end up conning me, gas lighting, harassing me to the point I feel I'm the one using which I'm not. I was military 10 years, and as far as doing so much training and different scenarios, I wasn't trained to go back to the ghetto. so don't give up, don't fall head over heels like I do, with the most beat up looking ppl, I fall for the sweet person I feel and think they are. they all like to antagonize, and it's not ever that serious, until it's happening to them. add me on fb, we could possibly learn alot from each other.

[lovetodance2018]

You are definitely worth it. This boyfriend was not the man for you. You are a special person and uniquely and wonderfully made. God has the right man for you and you will meet him in God's timing. In the meantime, try to find out who you are and find the things you love about yourself. What do you like to do? We all have special things about ourselves, it just takes time to find out what they are. Are you getting professional help for your anxiety and depression? It is important to get the help you need to get your anxiety and depression under control. With the right help, medication, and strategies you can feel better and not struggle so much. I will be praying for you. Know you are not alone. There are people on this forum who are here for you and to encourage you. Keep reaching out on this forum. Hugs!!!