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So any advice on dealing with guys who are only into you for you’re body? There’s a guy I really feel like I’ve connected with and we hang out a lot and we have kissed a few times but after I go back home it’s like it never even happened and we don’t talk that much. All my friends say he’s just using to me have sex but I don’t know what to think. I don’t want to do something with him and regret it later on but how else am I supposed to know if I don’t try and see what happens ? Someone plz help. I know this is personal but I’m hoping some of you can relate maybe ?

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That’s always a difficult situation. I’ve been in your shoes a few times. And it has worked out both ways. Maybe make a pro and con list? It might feel silly but it really helps to see it in front of you.

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Thank you !

Find out more about him before you do anything , maybe.

See what his plans are in respect of relationships.

Ask him.

It’s about how you will feel too. If you go ahead and are intimate and he isn’t interested afterwards, how would you feel.

It’s good to wait until someone is committed to a relationship imo , I know it doesn’t always work that way realistically.

Every good wish to you x

🌺🌼🌺🌼

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You’re right. Thank you ! :)

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Your welcome.

Temptation is real difficult to resist at times.But feelings can be so hurt.

I do hope everything goes ok for you 🌺🌼🌺🌼

You should ask him directly what his intentions are, put him on the spot

Advise fore dealing with guys that only want your body:

Unless you are only in it for sex, dont get involved.

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