Normal Hatred?

[mhunnell19]

I had a miscarriage about two months ago. I recently learned that a girl from my old school is pregnant. Normally I’d be okay, but I just can’t help but be angry. Is this normal? Like I get mad because I’m in a better place to raise a child than her, and am smarter. I even hate the name she chose. Is it okay for me to feel this way?

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I don’t think it is healthy to hold onto that kind of anger. Why allow others to have control over your happiness?

[Lostandbroken]

It's okay to a certain point. There is always a chance you'll be blessed with a baby again yourself, I could only imagine the pain you're going through, but if you hold the grudge and anger it puts stress on your body which in the long run could make it harder to conceive. I am deeply sorry about your loss, but I think 2 months is still a little early to be back to normal after something like that so you are okay just don't stress it to much! I'm here if you wanna talk!

[mhunnell19 in reply to Lostandbroken]

Thank you! Right now it’s kind of hard to think about having any more kids, but yeah! I don’t say wish she’d have a miscarriage or anything. I think it’s just more jealousy that I was in a better place to raise a kid yet she’s the one having one. But I really appreciate that!