DEPRESSION

[Chosenone99]

Hello my name is Kira I'm new here and also pregnant. I've been having the worst depression ever for multiple reasons. I just need others who I can talk to and they actually listen and respond. I feel alone and not very liked and I need friends or associate who can understand how I'm feeling if what I said makes sense.

[Corgigirl]

Congratulations on the pregnancy!!! I don't have a lot of friends either. I haven't been in this but a few days but I have already found it to be a great support and relief. I am not alone.

[Chosenone99 in reply to Corgigirl]

Thanks corgigirl I hope I do to I need it most right now

[Corgigirl in reply to Chosenone99]

I think you will. I tried a group on FB and only made it a day before my anxiety kicked up really bad. Here I look forward to taking to people like me. People here want to vent and get help and ideas to help themselves. I hope you do get to see someone for the depression. I know hormones changes can make it worse.

[Chosenone99 in reply to Corgigirl]

It does especially with another human inside you. But my depression started when I first got pregnant. the father of my child was around only for my first 2 months and now I'm six months pregnant I haven't talked to him or touched him in four months. He denies our child and spread rumors about me saying I'm crazy and I'm not pregnant because his first babymother wanted me to get an abortion or he would be going on child support so now he doesn't claim my baby. He has a new girlfriend (it isn't me or his other child's mother) and she has told me I cant contact him for no reason child or not so I feel a little sad about that but it also makes me angry and I've been trying to contact him but he keeps pushing me off he called me yesterday and told me he will try and find time when his girlfriend doesn't mind him talking to me to talk to me face to face

And just to mention this is the girl he was cheating on me with and Everytime she sees me she tries to attack me while I'm pregnant and I get so angry at him because I feel as if he can control her a little bit more than he does but at the same time I miss him Sooo much but all he does is mistreat me and I'm not understanding why I'm carrying his child I don't understand what made him hate me so much❗

[lordken in reply to Chosenone99]

I hope he realizes that having someone to love and miss you is the most beautiful thing in life.Am just looking someone to be around me even when their pregnancy isn’t mine I still can love them and support them.

He will come to realize his mistakes and come back.Your statement here show how emotionally matured you are.That alone wil bring him back

[Corgigirl]

You are not alone either. I hope you find the support I have so far

[Corgigirl]

Oh girl I am so Sorry. What is is doing has very little to do with how he feels about you. He is a user and is only caring about himself. He will be treating this new girl the same way when he spots someone else to use. I am sorry he has done this to you. You can take him to court and get child support. They can have a DNA test done. I would make this low life pay child support. You deserve so much better them him. He is not a man but a selfish little boy. You don't need that. Your deserve someone who treats you and your child like the most important thing, please don't settle for less.

[Chosenone99 in reply to Corgigirl]

I am going to put him on child support with his no good ass ❗ and thanks so much for the response and I'm just gonna take it day to day and see how I feel but I feel totally better well better than how I was when I made the post

I'ma follow you

[Corgigirl in reply to Chosenone99]

Good for you!!!!! No problem. We are here to support each other!!! I am following you too!

[Tcbabe]

Makes perfect since. I’m going through a tuff time myself. Just to have someone that can relate and understand exactly how you feel

Talking to someone that’s feeling normal like we will in time. There is no way they can understand how you cannot connect all the time.

[Chosenone99 in reply to Tcbabe]

Exactly girl

[Tcbabe]

Watch a video on you tube about anxiety and depression, it makes a lot of

Sense. All try and send you the website

[Chosenone99 in reply to Tcbabe]

Ok thanks

[lordken]

I feel exactly how you feel. And sometimes want someone to just listen to me and hear me out.