I need some help. If you read Mt previous post you would see that I'm in a bit of a predicament. In short, I'm homeless and my job hardly pays enough for transport back to work. I have to depend on an old woman who doesn't want me in her home to feed me. It's very distressing. In light of this, my best friend has offered me a place in her home. The problem is that She lives with her boyfriend and her 7month old. I... Can't really explain how exactly I feel about this. First off babies and kids are NOT for me. I like them, but in small quantities. I could never live with one. Secondly, her boyfriend admitted to her that he had a crush on me first, which I was totally oblivious of, and got close to her to get close to me. And she brings that up in front of me all the time. Thirdly, I don't feel comfortable living with a man I'm not involved with or related to. I don't want to stay alone with him because its awkward. And the him liking me thing makes it even worse. Also, I dont want to be a bother. I know she invited me and all but I don't want to cost them money. They have their baby to spend on. Also she wants me to babysit. I flatout refuse to do that. I didn't tell her to have a baby. I don't want to deal with one. I can't possibly tell her that! To make matters worse they live totally different than I do. I need to have my own space and like to be alone all day if I don't work. When I visit her she sticks to me all day and I can't tell her to back off or I'll hurt her feelings. They lead pretty unhealthy lives and every time I visit I get an ear or upper respiratory tract infection. They also go to bed very late and I sleep very early. There is only one bathroom here and it's in their bedroom. I find that even more uncomfortable. I'm sure I could go on all night about reasons I don't want to stay. But the only good thing is that I might be able to find a good job and move in 6months to a yr or so. What should I do? I feel like an ungrateful swine. I feel like I dont deserve her kindness. I feel like I'm being forced into an uncomfortable situation. I feel like we will come to hate each other when we live together. I already started to resent her and I only visit for 2 days at a time. She always wants me to stay longer. I always decline. Why won't she get it? This is keeping me up at night. I have an interview near her place tomorrow and I'm having serious doubts. Please help.