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Couldn’t control my anger and reaction to something and things blew up. Now my husband wants to leave me and I’m so heartbroken and devastated. He tells me how toxic I’ve been in his life and that I act like my abuser from my complex PTSD. That I don’t deserve anyone and he hates me. He tells me he doesn’t like coming home to me. His addiction to video games had caused a rift and we were supposed to be mending our relationship, but every time we fight he threatens to play his game, something that devastated us a year ago. He’s playing again and tells me we aren’t together. I’m spiraling out of control and I don’t know what to do. I’m hurt, scared and want my husband back and our marriage but I think he’s finally decided he wants out. I’ve just been crying every minute and I just don’t want to be around. We’re sleeping in separate rooms and I’m so hurt by it. I screamed and yelled at him at a topic we fought about and it escalated from there. I couldn’t reign in my emotions and he said he had enough. We were to do couples counseling but he doesn’t go because he wants to see changes in me. He blames me for everything. He cheated on me with a girl who he played video games with online and I think he’s hinting he has women that want him and be glad to replace me with if I don’t appreciate him. He knows what the video games will do to me. And I don’t understand that if I’ve said and done hurtful things or that upset him, why he has to be spiteful and hurt me back 100x more.
I’m just dying every little bit and I can’t take it anymore. He told me he hates me and that our whole 9yrs of marriage is nothing now. He is set on divorce and getting rid of me. He wants his own life, and he doesn’t care anymore. I don’t know how to go on anymore.