Alone

[Cantdealanymore]

If I went missing, would anyone truly care??

If I was gone, would anyone notice??

In a world full of selfies, and self centeredness does anyone even ever truly notice??

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I'm sure people would care.

[DragonTears]

Hey Trende,

Oh sweetheart, of course people would care and notice. If not the present people, then all the future people who never have the chance to get to know you. Don't deprive them of whatever purpose you have. You are important and you have a place here. You have a purpose and a soul that is unique and beautiful. You may be in a bad place now, but things will change, time will move on and changes will inevitably happen. You have to give your future self a chance. You will find your place and purpose and you will have people that love you, just hold on and keep fighting.

even the world we live in has to change, look back in history and you will soon see that it always does. We are wasteful and then realise we can't sustain it, so we start cleaning up. We have wars, and realise we can't sustain that, so we try for peace. these things have happened, come and gone for as long as we have existed. This selfish way of hatred and ignorance cannot be sustained, so we will change. In the mean time, you need to take care of you and help others when you can. Do kind things, gather karma points, be kind to yourself too. You will look back on this period in a few year's time and you will wish you could give your past self a big hug and reassuring yourself that all will be OK.

We care! Big Hugs Xx

[Cantdealanymore in reply to DragonTears]

Thank you @dragonTears. Your the best

[quieturban]

U hang in there. It's all will be okay. I promise. It will get better. I am

Here for you. I know how u feel. I felt like that too and still it feel it sometimes. Hugs

[Windy101]

Yes, people would notice and care. You may not feel it or see it right now, but if you were gone it would be a big loss to the world. You have a purpose and that purpose is good. You are meant to be here.

[Beezer]

Please go to a psychiatrist and get on medication if you aren't already on something. Depression make us feel alone and once the medication starts working you should feel better. We're here for you

[Chloe2057]

One word YES to all the above. It is so easy to under value yourself. If you are depressed and isolating and not trusting easily (goes with the territory) you will feel all of the above! TAKE HEART! You can feel differently, l know l have felt the same.

It was only when l started inching my way out the door to go to evening classes (short 6 week ones) sometimes not even topics that l particularly wanted to study that l began to feel better and some of the topics have now turned into hobbies!

Also l make a point of making myself talk to others (its easy if you have a dog) and l am amazed at the response l get. I find that if l can put positivity “out there” it attracts positivity! If you can face it or rather when it can, join non-threatening things, where there is a topic being taught/discussed etc. Peoples attention will not be all on you then. You have time to “suss” out those you may like to talk to! If you do take the amazing step of suggesting coffee! You will be amazed at how many people attend these types of forum who feel like you do.

Today’s world can be a harsh place and l agree that people are not as friendly or kind as perhaps they were years ago and we are all encouraged to watch for “stranger danger” This makes people recoil into themselves more!

Good luck and remember you are not alone! Love to hear your feedback!