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Should I be stressed, worried or anything if my boyfriend works with a girl that has the same name of his ex.

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Is it his ex?

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I don't think so... he hasn't worked with her. He will find out Tuesday.

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Why do you worry about it?

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My thought is.... what if he's thinking of her instead of me. What if it's a coincidence... etc. jealous problems

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But he is in a relationship with you. Do you not trust him?

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I don't trust him but that's because he did something prior to us being in a committed relationship. He hasn't done anything since we've been in a relationship though but I just have trust issues.

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Ok, so you think this is down to you then, will you cope ok with it?

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No I broke up with him because of it lol so now we're sitting in silence

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So he isn't your boyfriend now?

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As of right now

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You just dumped him?

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Ya...

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😵

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So he is free to do what he wants now and so are you.

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Yep

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Are you happy now?

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Ehhh I want him to chase me

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What if he doesn't.

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Then whatever honestly

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Sure as long as you can be happy that's the main thing.

If he wants someone else other then you it's his loss honestly and just let him go and find someone that's gonna treat you like you deserve to be treated and only be down for you 🤷🏼‍♀️

You don't have trust then you don't have much of a relationship anyway.

Get some one you can trust love , no man should ever have you in your feelings but he should have you feeling your self 👌🏻Facts

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Yes, if it is your boyfriend's ex name and your gut feeling is telling you to I would.

Absolutely not tho I can c where it coming from x

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