Hi, I'm new here. After breaking up with my boyfriend for 3 months we decided to get back together. He has a depression and the reason why we broke up was that I didn't know how bad was his mental illness. I've been educating myself about this illness and I have proved him that I love him showing support and encouraging to be better. But during this time I've been feeling frustrated with work and on top of that anxious, I'm worried about him all the time. He barely calls me, text me and his alcohol habits have gone severely. I'm trying to be patient but I wish he could talk to me, ask me how I'm doing, or give me the quality time I'm giving him. I know that he is emotional unavailable right now, and I shouldn't take it personally, but I do and that's affecting me. I love him and I promise him I was going to be stronger for the both us, but I don't know how much I can wait.