What's the point

[Singgirl3]

What's the point? No one cares. No one loves me. No one knows what I feel. No one understands. No one will be there for me. No one would notice.

[Hidden]

Where do you live? (country) What time is it there?

[Singgirl3 in reply to Hidden]

United States it is about 10:00 pm

[menagerie11]

I am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I would encourage you to join a support group or see a counsellor. You don't have to be alone. I don't know if you have a faith position....I do, and I can assure you that you are loved, understood, and that there is someone there for you all the time. You sound very depressed. Another option is to get yourself to a hospital or mental health crisis centre. You matter. You are here for a reason. No one can replace you. Don't give up.

[gogogirl in reply to menagerie11]

I understand. It is very hard to be motivated to attend a support group if you are depressed. Please know we are here if you want to vent.

[Hidden]

Ok, so you're in the eastern part of the US. Who do you know that you can call to talk with? Think it would be good for you to hear an actual human voice. Many people who reply to our posts live in England and it's after 2 or 3 a.m. there....and many people who could "talk" with you by messages are in bed....but in the US maybe some one is home in the western states that will be able to reply to your post because it's earlier there.

I will need to leave you very soon due to a medical reason, but I caught your post and what to let you know someone cared.

But, first, let's decide if there is some one you know that you can call to talk with? What do you think? I know sometimes just little time talking with a real person (you know I mean one where you can hear the voice) makes a bigger difference for me than typed messages.

[gogogirl in reply to Hidden]

Perhaps the whole problem is that you have no one you can talk with so you came here. I am here.

[Hidden]

I care

[Hidden]

I care.

[Hidden]

Hello again. It's about midnight where you live, but only about 9 p.m. in the west coast and people maybe coming home from dinner out and would be back home. I opened my computer to see if you were receiving replies.

There have been several, but I may try to reach someone in California to "listen" with you for awhile. I think you also have another post. I'm going to read that one now.

[Stevedan]

You're not alone. I'm in the same place you are. That feeling that no one cares and not being missed can be overwhelming. It's hard enough to go through this and even worse when you think you're doing this alone. But you're not. It may not seem like it right now but there people that care. It's depression messing with your mind. I've fighting it for years and know how it can beat you down. I don't know how long you've been fighting it but you're still here and that says alot about you and the strength you have. Sorry sounded like a bad counselor reading from the crisis management handbook. Rambling to strangers helps me cope now you need to find a way to cope. Hang in there.

[sydxoxo]

hello love, trust me i know how you feel. I've been where you are. last summer near a year ago i was in a suicide clinic. i broke the hearts of my own family and I've never felt so awful before. but after that day, everything got better. i got help, i learned to be a stronger and better person and so can you. you're a very strong person and i hope you know that. anyone with depression are the strongest people i know. you're walking through hell and back and let me tell you. if you stick around it will be so well worth it. you're beautiful and the fact that you had the strength to reach out on here shows that you're courageous and you want love, you need someone. anyone. and i'm here. it's horrible the things life can put you through. but trust me when i say it will get better. the love of your life is out there. and you'll get married and have a family and get to see all the beauty life offers. even having walked through the terrors life throws. hold on my love. it will be worth it