I'm after some advise regarding trust issues and paranoia. I've been with my partner for several years, but my trust issues are getting worse and worse. I have always been a laid back person who couldn't care less what the other person is doing, but due to the way he used to treat me and the lies, I'm finding it so hard to move on from everything he's done. We have some amazing times together, but whenever he goes out he makes the situation worse by lying about things. He's genuinely a good person, he just can't stop hurting me. I feel like I've been driven insane by everything he's done, but I couldn't image myself without him. I hate who I've become and I hate how I can't trust him, but I love him so much. I just wish he would listen to me when I ask him to be open and honest with me. What can I do?