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[mjgalang22]

i just ca't let go someone. i feel like i am squeezed to my ends and gave up everything to this someone. i am tired, i want to give up but i just can't afford to loss the person. i am full of anxiety each and every day.

[BonnieSue]

Is this someone you should give up? Or someone you should stay attached? The answer makes all the difference. You seem to know what's right so why not do it?

[mjgalang22 in reply to BonnieSue]

we were both christians and i know that love and understanding should be on top of us. he is my bestfriend and my lover for more than five years. we were on the same company we work in. he wasnt that mean to me before, but i started noticing him to like someone and that what makes him give sapce to me and our relationship. we do not have label in our relationship but we do what lovers do. and now i just feel down because he continously neglecting me each day. advise please. thanks

[Kobojunkie]

you seem to know exactly what you want to do.i mean according to your own words, you are tired and want to give up.

I am not sure what the situation is but be sure that you are not here telling us that by giving up all for another, the other somehow OWES you a debt of some kind. 🤔

[mjgalang22 in reply to Kobojunkie]

we were both christians and i know that love and understanding should be on top of us. he is my bestfriend and my lover for more than five years. we were on the same company we work in. he wasnt that mean to me before, but i started noticing him to like someone and that what makes him give sapce to me and our relationship. we do not have label in our relationship but we do what lovers do. and now i just feel down because he continously neglecting me each day. advise please. thanks

i lost my parents when i entered college, and he was there at those times that i am depressed and on my hardest hit.

[BonnieSue in reply to mjgalang22]

So he was there when you needed someone the most. But now he sees someone else he wants to be with more...and he's neglecting you for that someone. You probably know that you can't hold him to you. You can only set him free and hope he comes back to you in the end. Do not close the door to him, leave it open and make it clear that it's open. Don't grovel, be proud that you have more to offer than she does. YOU are the better woman. He will be wise to stay with you for the long haul. But don't try to hold him down, let him make his own decision because that's what he's going to do no matter what. And pray your heart silly that he stays with you or comes back to you in the end. Pray, pray, pray!!!!!

[mjgalang22 in reply to BonnieSue]

awee, that was beautiful. i love all your thoughts. i'll try my best to reach my goals. thank you for this//love from the philippines. ☺

[mjgalang22 in reply to mjgalang22]

i was somehow enlightened.

[BonnieSue in reply to mjgalang22]

excellent!!