Hi everyone, sorry in advance for my bad English.
My boyfriend is 25 years old, he's a very talented musician from California, and he has a bipolar disorder. His illness is destroying us and despite this he's not doing anything to control it. Nothing: no doctor, no medication, no self-control; it's a huge chaos. We are really in love with each other, but it's like we cannot live our love. Right now we are in different countries, cause when we were living together we were always fighting.
I am desperately looking for a male person who is also suffering from a bipolar disorder and who would accept to write an email to my boyfriend telling him why it is important to control this disease when you are in a relationship. A person who is or was in a relationship and who can testify to the damages that bipolarity can cause in a couple if nothing is done to control it. It just needs to be written in a very respectful and nice way, and, above all, with very solid and rational arguments, cause this is what my boyfriend mostly needs.
He will really really appreciate it and he will read it carefully, cause I know he wants to be helped!!! He's suffering like hell, and I know it's killing him to see that he's destroying our relationship.
I would be so, so grateful if you could help me....I am honestly desperate.... It's a torturing relationship.
Thank you so much for reading me
With lots of love