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[Argy192000]

Often when im faced with making big life choices my hands clam up and my depression starts to act up. I didn't graduate and now im working to get my GED but life is moving too slowly for me, often i find myself doubting my abilities rather than working towards my goals. I know this is normal but Im getting tired of being this way.

[sweetiepye]

Sounds like you're shooting yourself in the foot.Why would you sabotage yourself like this? Because if you don't try, you won't fail. Would you be a perfectionist ? Just a wild guess. It seems like those big decisions have you running scared. Break them down into more manageable parts and you will be more successful. Pam

[purpleshadow87]

Big life decisions can be scary. I'm a list maker, writer, and researcher. Whenever I have a big decision to make, I write a pros and cons list. This might sound silly, but sometimes I will write letters to myself, explaining why I chose to to make the decision and why I didn't. I also explain the possible regrets I may be faced with later. I try to research whatever I can related to whatever decision I'm trying to make.

[gogogirl]

Good for you - you now have a GED. I hope that you celebrate that.