Hi everyone, I’m new here and feeling really low...hoping to connect with others who get it. I’ve been trying to find friends online, but it’s left me so alone.
I joined a Discord server, was active for a week, and thought I’d made friends. We had great chats, but one day, they all ghosted me without reason. I saw them bonding with others in the same server, ignoring my messages in the channel, which hurt so much. I wrote a heartfelt note tagging and thanking them and saying I might be boring, then left, but no one responded...not even a reaction. I was bit curious and even checked later with a new profile, and they were just carrying on like I was never there. This wasn’t the first time. Other Discord servers and a Reddit heartbreak group ignored me too.
With no close IRL friends, I feel I’ll never find my people. It’s hitting my work and mood....I’m so depressed. Has anyone faced online ghosting? How do you cope with feeling invisible? Any tips for rebuilding confidence? I’d love advice or to know I’m not alone