Just wanted to talk!!!

[Jenna_Smith]

Hi all!!!!

I could feel all my feelings being cooped up and then i go to my phone and look for one person i can talk to about this. I do find it but unfortunately the other person does not have time. Its not like i dont try to reach out again, i did , i did try twice so that i dont have any doubts thinking maybe i didnt try enough. But nopes, i guess just needed to tell this somewhere.

[Roxylox]

Its very disheartening when you ring someone ,really needing to talk and they don't have time. My heart sinks. Even if they say, l will ring you later for me its not the same . You need someone right there, right then.

[completely-zero654 in reply to Roxylox]

Dearest Roxylox, know exactly what you are saying and also the lady above, I have nobody apart from my husband but have just written a post what is happening to us. A real true friend is your mum and I lost mine in June 2013 miss her so very much as I could always go to her and know whatever mum was doing she would listen and somehow put things right for me. Know some people do not have any parents or ones they can speak to like this but they should be there for you when needed. Now I have to try and stand up on my own two feet and it is so very hard, feel like just hiding away sometimes as just don't know what to do or even have any friends to talk to.

Take care xxxx

[Roxylox in reply to completely-zero654]

My mother died when l was 13, abd my father was pretty reserved, just a man of his time. I often wonder if the loss of a mothet at that age had shaped my life. You were lucky to have yours as a friend.

I think we are lucky to have our husbands at least. I have a couple of friends, but rarely see them. Do share any worries on here. I have found it does help.

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Sorry it is a problem when we have no-one to talk to when we need a listener on the other end of the phone. If you need to have someone there just to chat on computer we are here. You can if you find it better here is PM someone you feel an affinity with in private, or open up on public pages here

BOB

[Wanttobecheerful]

Can you try Samaritans ? I’m sure they would listen.