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Why am I a failure and screw up

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Hi why I am such I screw up and failure to my girlfriend and kid I feel so lost I am seem to do is screw up I do not know why I keep screwing up at every chance I get I do not want to be this person any more I hate the person I have become I want to change but I can not seem to do it I feel so messed up I do not want to her my family any more

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Just a few days I felt like giving up but I carried on and got through the tasks I thought I was going to screw up. What is important is the advice everyone gave me - my brother he works as security guard and said he was disorientated for the first year and second year he still could not remember anything but third year he felt comfortable. Keep watching motivational youtube videos - failure we have to go through several times but eventually we make it!

Don't give up and keep trying! - that's important the work you put in!

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Hi Bobsticks and welcome to this caring community. It sounds as though you are being very hard on yourself. Please be kinder to yourself and think about what you would like to change in your life and how you could do this. Set small achievable goals. Do things you enjoy and make you happy. Spend time doing things you enjoy with your family. If you are feeling anxious or depressed, it may be a good idea to discuss these feelings with your GP who will be able to help and support you. Also, please have a look at the Pinned Post section on the forum and stay on the forum where you will receive help and support from other members. Are any other members able to help Bobsticks, please?

Thank you and best wishes.

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