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[Amm979539]

Hello I need some advice please I’m just going to put it out there so you get a better understanding

I feel like my body is giving up. I’m 44 I have fibromyalgia, suffer from depression for over 20 years. I was abused for all of my childhood by more than 1 person which I’ve reported to the police recently so am trying to deal with this. I’m a mother and g/mother and a wife. My body is rejecting food I’ve not eaten for 11 days I stay in bed every day. My doctor is not very understanding and I don’t feel comfortable going to see him anymore. I live in a little village in wales beautiful place but I’ve no one here. My husband is work and money and no play, There’s so much stress in this house I just don’t want to be here anymore, I don’t want to die I couldn’t do that to my family but I know I’m not sure that won’t happen. I need advice help anything please.... tia A x

[sweetiepye]

Well, I am not a Doctor, but I can tell you what I would do in a similar situation. Your mind has some control over your body so I would be working on that. Husbands are unlikely to change in my experience so I would be looking for support else where. I was also an abused child. I don't go back there as it puts me in a very dark place. My life starts now and I have a better idea of what I want it to be. So that's what I focus on. Eat well, exercise your mind by reading uplifting books and exercise your body any way you can with your Doctors approval. Pam

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Amm

You need to drink daily, the body needs fluid ever three days. Food you need to eat and if you have not eaten for eleven days, you need help now, contact Emergency Services on Tel 999 or NHS Information Line on Tel 111, explain your situation and they will assist.

You need to eat if you fail to eat eventually you will find you will become unable to consume and will need assistance

Regards childhood abuse you need to discuss you Mental Health with your GP. If you are having problems with your GP make an appointment with another GP within that practice.

You can if needed change our GP Practice and hopefully you will find another Practice near at hand. Check on NHS CHOICES web page. You will find a list of GP Practice in your area.

BOB

[MAS_Nurse]

Hello Amm979539 and welcome to this community.

So sorry to hear that you are having such a difficult time and dealing with reporting the abuse. It is perfectly understandable that this is taking a toll on you. Our members have given you good advice and in particular I would share Bob's concern regarding the fact that you are not eating. I would also urge you to try to see an alternative GP at the practice as it is important that you try and change this situation soon.

Maybe tell us a little bit more about your family. Where do they live? Is there any way you can get some support and help from them?

In the meantime if you need immediate help please see the contacts below.

NHS: 999 [Emergencies]

NHS 111 [Non-Emergencies]

The Samaritans Tel: 116 123 [24 hours line]

MIND UK charity: Helpline Tel: [phone] [e-mail] Text: 86463 mind.org.uk/information-sup...

SANEline Tel: [phone] [4.30pm – 10.30pm daily] sane.org.uk/

Please keep in touch and let us know how you are getting on.