Abused or abuser

[Greenfool33]

Four to five years ago my relationship of seventeen years ended. I began dating a friend of almost thirty years shortly after. I'm the beginning from the very first time we hooked up I had gone to my house to take a shower yet had planned to returned to my new boyfriends house as we had planned to go out to the casino because I had never gone and we thought it would have been a fun date. I text message him to see where he was at and what he was doing and he responded just waiting on the sun to come up to go throw some disk golf. When I got back to his house he was out in his yard with another girl his ex so yes he was waiting for the daylight yet forgot to mention he was sitting there with his ex girlfriend waiting to go throw fish golf with...it hurts as I felt like his lack of honesty be it he didn't offer that small bit of info. We went about our day and at the casino he talked me out of all the money In my account. He ended u winning two jackpots totaling over twenty five hundred dollars . He gave me back the money I had to start with and wanted to stay and play I was a little hurt by this as the idea was to go in and see if we could win because I was needing to move out of my place and needed to come up with rent. 375.00 out of twenty five hundred giving me back the money of mine I really didn't have to loose in the first place. I was upset because the goal was to try and get some money together yet because he used my money to win he believed it was his only even tho he had to come up of of

[ellamental]

Walk away fast. Don’t give money to anyone and the other girl thing is a red flashing light. If it were nothing he would not need to lie. Good luck.

[Cookie2217]

I wouldn't have went to a casino on a first date. Already disagreements about money and who's is who's not a good start I'd say. Then even before you left he was dishonest with you from the jump hanging with his ex. Nope. Sorry. Wrong number you should have told him. You are worth far more my dear than to put up with that nonsense. There's too many fish in the sea for that. You are worthy, you are enough and you are fearfully and wonderfully made by God above. Set your sights on someone else. You'll be much happier in the long run I think. Good luck with your move in. Hoping everything goes well.