tired of life being unfair

[Bluemoon5]

hello, i am new here . i have dissociation.. depersonalisation and derealisation, a lot of trauma related mental health issues. i am tired of life being the same old tiring problems. wish i had a fair life. nothing feels fair, i barely have anything i want in this life. i had a rubbish day yesterday . i have been through emotional neglect .. when i was a kid...and a lot of bad things when i was an adult which only made me worse.. why trauma .. why me , why all of this

[MAS_Nurse]

Hello Bluemoon5 and welcome to this community. I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with life. This is a caring and supportive community and maybe if you tell us a little more about your situation the members here will be able to share their own experiences and wisdom which hopefully you may find helpful. Take care and keep in touch.

[Angel533]

I don't really know much about your situation but life can be extremely hard sometimes but please keep your head up and stay strong x

[MsTree]

I've felt this way before. Especially when I was younger. And rightfully so. We only have one life to live and we want to get and give all we can while we're here. When my mother had to go to a nursing home and I visited her, I saw the end of life there. My mother got the most out of life. No matter how sick she was, she still kept a smile and a laugh. She suffered from major depression when she was younger just as I do. I guess my point is, visit a nursing home and look around. Realize these are your best days and no matter what, try to look for the little things that will make you happy. Mother had a stroke that left her paralyzed. She couldn't even swallow anymore. But she could smile and still had use of one hand which she used to hold mine. I hope you have some happy days ahead. Even though I don't know you, I care.