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I hate Gossips

Subs1
Subs1
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I had told secret about my love n heart break to two people both female, I trusted them,

Recently got to know that my secret is no longer a secret, why can't girls keep secret, I feel very angry at them but at the same time they are my best friend's,

Help me how to deal with them,

How not to fake

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borderriever

When is a secret not a secret ????

When you tell someone

BOB

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Subs1
Subs1
in reply to borderriever

Hay but I trusted them, they are my friends

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Hidden
Hidden
in reply to Subs1

Woman can't keep secrets,

Just like men can't hold in farts!

You will know not to tell your secrets again.

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hypercat54
hypercat54
in reply to Hidden

Women can keep secrets. I do and so do my female friends. People who aren't friends as one of the definitions of friendship is finding people you can trust. x

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Hidden
Hidden
in reply to hypercat54

It was a joke

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hypercat54
hypercat54
in reply to Hidden

Ok no worrries. x

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borderriever
borderriever
in reply to Subs1

Sometimes friends can still open their mouths without thinking. Sometimes they may not think,

In the past I have listened to both men and women, both natter, Women are worse than men. I understood a long time ago if friends or not. People like to listen to others sorrows, they then need to have things to talk about, they can feel confident the other listener will not pass it on. They always do.

We all need to be circumspect. I stand by above.

BOB

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Plummy93

Keeping secrets is a trait, not everyone has it. Personally I would never share anything that was said to me in confidence, not even if they weren’t my friends. But I know people who would and not think twice about it.

It’s important to get to know your friends personalities because some of them will gossip even when they mean no harm, it’s just how they are.

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CammyLinda

I’m sorry to tell you after being on this earth 45 years I’ve realised you can’t really trust anyone. So if you have a gigantic secret tell no one xx even your partner can turn to be your worst enemy!!!

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CammyLinda

Actually I lie, my mother was the only one I could trust 100% but she had to go when I was21, so I didn’t have my one and only true friend for very long

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