Need to vent

[tiffany1979]

A lot of you have given me advice in the past and have read about my current engagement. I think today I may have hit my breaking point. Baby mama drama is just to much to handle. What kind of mother just drops off your baby and does not come back for 10 days even missed her birthday! Every day is a different excuse why she won’t come get the baby. In the mean time it’s been two weeks since I seen my fiancé. Today I got to meet his daughter and spend about an hour with them. But my birthday was Sunday and our anniversary is today and he missed both because of the ex. I don’t think I can keep living this way. This is getting to much to handle I feel like I’m in this relationship alone. I have done everything I can for him and his daughter and I feel I get nothing in return. I had a whole night away planned tonight and I had to cancel because he did not fight enough for me to get the mom to pick up the baby. Mind you he only has every other weekend visitation but she leaves her for a week at a time over and over this time it’s been almost 10 days. How am I suppose to deal with something like this. She is ruining our relationship ruining his life and everything around him he has basically lost because of her. No matter how much I try and help he won’t fight her or go against hurt. They say you fight for what you love but I’m tired of fighting and being alone!!!

[AjMiki]

The thing is Tiffany, we have all given advice, opinions and guidance in the past, but only you can make the actual choices. I suspect many people reading your post won't know what to say now because it's simply a continuation of the same scenario 'repeat'. In life no matter who you are or what your suffering, my view is you need to set yourself a bar in life and accepting nothing less than the standards on a level or above that bar...are you prepared to spend the rest of your life doing this? Re-read your post Tiffany, I think you have answerd this yourself!

Go and get out and about, see friends, have a night out with a mate, a meal, a movie, a good drink (if u do) - it's time to put yourself back in the place where you belong, 'priority' and the rest will follow in due course.