The Flat End of the Lug Wrench - Mental Health Sup...

Mental Health Support

31,378 members17,127 posts

The Flat End of the Lug Wrench

StressBuster profile image
0 Replies

Growing up the youngest in a very large family, everybody did things for me. I didn’t get to contribute much because there was always somebody doing the contributing. And as a result, it rendered me uncertain, doubtful and depressed. It made me feel limited and un-obligated. Throughout the years, and thanks to a very responsible and morally accountable roommate, I’ve slowly changed my ways. I started contributing to daily tasks such as washing the dishes, keeping the bathroom clean, sweeping the leaves off the patio, throwing out the trash, etc… These are important duties. They maintain order in the small space that you live in. Even a 1% increase in your contribution is a step in the right direction! In the process, not only do we have a cleaner house, but I have been feeling less uncertain, doubtful and depressed.

If you work full-time, yes, they are robbing you of your precious time (the work week should be considerably shorter), but despite that, some duties are important. If you’re a parent, teach your young child to contribute in a “realistic” way, carefully balancing school and house chores. It will not only produce a more confident and less depressed adult, but it will also make the world a better place.

Written by
StressBuster profile image
StressBuster
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .

You may also like...

Light at the end of the tunnel.

had neglected because of depression, looking for a new job and most important to me seeing my...

This is less important than it feels, but I'd love some supportive words, please!

disrespect. Complicating that... I'm fighting depression and this reminds me a great deal of issues...

End my life

Been so depressed for the last 10yr. Was accused and convicted of a crime I did not commit.around...

Help I am at the end of the road

I'm new here and need help

capable enough to do good for myself but this self-doubt is killing me. Do anyone here feels the...