Hi, this is my first post on anything like this.
Myself and my partner have been arguing for quite a few months now (I think because of how I am at the moment) but no matter how much I try to explain he just doesn't seem to be able to help. I have a lot of issues with family (not close), work (stressful and very busy job) and now my relationship. Usually I can cope with these things and just get on with it, but since being pregnant I just can't seem to cope. I'm over thinking, over reacting and over emotional. I have explained all of these feelings and thoughts to him and have even told him what I need from him (cuddles, reassurance love and to be honest just a little help around the house and with our other child - I am not over reacting when I say he does NOTHING lol) At the time he says all of the right things and helps for a day or two but then everything goes back to normal. He says we have never been a 'lovey dovey' type of couple so he won't start to do it now... I am not aski for that, I'm just asking for the basics.
Do I just need to get on with things? Am I expecting too much? Am I just being stupid?
I have a midwife appointment this afternoon and plan to explain this to her too... I have briefly mentioned it at my last appointment.