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My heart still aches from a break up over 8 months ago. I've allowed it to distract me from everything else in my life. I love this man dearly. I think of him everyday. Im just here, I've given up on everything else...

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SammieXo

Im really sorry to hear this it must be very hard for you because clearly you love him. But its now time to think about yourself. Start doing things you enjoy? take up a new hobbie? Eat healthly, keep active and keep positive. X

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Celtic27

Hi reree im sorry to hear of your. Breakup but to save your own health you have to move on ! As hard as it sounds you have to now look after your self ! I presume you were together a long time which makes it harder for you to move on but time is a great healer please take care david

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Satsuma

Break ups are indeed very hard to get over. Relationships break down for a reason. Acceptance of the facts are difficult I understand.

See it as a clearing out to make way for better times and in time you will be able to use this as a learning curve.

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Stilltrying_

This may sound hard but I think you know what I am about to say . You have to force yourself to move on from this and eventually that feeling of moving on will become real and you will think of him less.

As Satuma said relationships break up for a reason.

There was something wrong. That thing would just keep happening or whatever problem it was it would never go away believe me ; in time you will see another path.

Gemma x

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Alone53

I know how you feel. Keep strong as I keep telling myself. If he wanted to be with you he would. People keep telling me that. Not sure that advise helps. I am liking it to a death so your grieving. X

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