Its nice to have people to talk too

[duncan1971]

Just wanted to say on here how at ease i feel talking about my illness and how i feel know it sounds daft but had a shave tonite after 3weeks of stubble surprising how something doing something small can cheer you up

[Suzie40]

It doesn't sound daft, it makes complete sense! And I bet you also look great now! Not that I'm suggesting you might not have done with three weeks of stubble!

[duncan1971 in reply to Suzie40]

Hi Lucy thank you for kind comment

[Suzie40]

You're very welcome! Glad you're finding support here x

[duncan1971 in reply to Suzie40]

Yes its a good site and know nobody will judge me anyway hope you are ok Lucy

[Suzie40 in reply to duncan1971]

I'm pretty good thanks!

[duncan1971 in reply to Suzie40]

Glad you are well Lucy have a good day

[DNR55 in reply to duncan1971]

NOBODY THATS ALSO SUFFERING WILL EVER JUDGE YOU!!

[ruby4me]

Hi Duncan, I know what you mean about the small things that most people take for granted but when you're depressed even getting washed feels like a monumental task, I know as I've been there, and believe me it DOES get easier with time! Keep on keeping on x

Ruby

[duncan1971 in reply to ruby4me]

Hello ruby thank you for comment you are right things will get easier not easy because sometimes i get impatient and into much of a hurry to get better im learning day by day

[ruby4me in reply to duncan1971]

Hi again Duncan I'm sorry that you are feeling inpatient, but I don't think there is a quick way as when I was ill I hit rock bottom and it took me a long time to recover. Just be as patient as you can and you will get back where you want to be. I wish you a speedy recovery

[duncan1971 in reply to ruby4me]

Thank yout ruby think its because i feel i haven't done much with my life but guess i need to be content with myself and what i do in life anyway thank you again and hope you are well

[Hidden]

Hiya, I'm glad this forum is helping you, I am always amazed at how much I can be lifted by just having a chat with someone who understands and well done on the shave!! Keep that good feeling in your head and take baby steps with yourself. Take care.

[duncan1971 in reply to Hidden]

Hi thanks for replying its good to get advice from people who know what you are going through anyway hope you are well from duncan

[Adorable1]

Hi Duncan

I agree it's a great help coming in the forum and chatting to lovely people who understand.

You mention how doing something small can cheer you up if there is one positive thing about this illness it's that it makes you appreciate so much those little things in life

X

[duncan1971 in reply to Adorable1]

Thanks adorable every little thing i do will be good no matter what it is

[Adorable1 in reply to duncan1971]

yes I understand that, same for me x

[Holly101]

Totally know what you mean Duncan! I can go weeks without washing my hair or having a shower ( I know, disgusting..lol), and I know I'm not the only one

It just seems like such a task, but you do feel so much better after it!!

So it doesn't sound daft at all! I think it's just part and parcel of what we're suffering from..

Good on ye for getting it done and glad it cheered ye up!

(Shame it doesn't last forever and you have to do it all again in a wee while lol)

take care Duncan,

Love, Holly Xxx

[duncan1971 in reply to Holly101]

Yes holly it can be hard doing little things I hope you are OK and have a good weekend from Duncan x

[Holly101]

Thanks Duncan, same to yourself!!

Love Holly Xx

[punnoose619]

Duncan....

i totally support you man.... this site is awesome and in 2 days time i have started to to getting back into living life the way its supposed to be lived..... Anywas feeling real happy for you dude.... good luck... hope you are welll.....

[cougarlady]

This is. Mum first time on here no mothers day cards for. Me I have 3kids lost and very. Very lonely. And sad