Have no one to talk too

hey I'm new to this sight, as I struggle to take about my feelings to anyone face to face I decided to use this support group thing, I recently dropped out of uni after losing the passion and drive for fashion that I had since I was young, I thought that's what I wanted to do with my life, I had my whole life planned and I was happy, but it all went away, so now ive quit uni, leaving all my friends I made there which cared for me more that my friends at home do, so now I'm back home with no idea what to do. I feel lost and confused, I have no motivation to do anything, to look for jobs or anything. My dad says I'm just being lazy, which I might be but the thought of not being sure what I want to do with the rest of my life scared the hell out of me. Ive just been in bed at home since I quit uni, feeling so worthless and down, but then I cant tell anyone this because they don't understand they just tell me its all going to be fine, ive even stopped going out drinking with my friends which used to be my favourite hobby lol, now I feel like I'm stuck in a hole and have no motivation to get out, ive not showered in days and ive not even inpacked from uni x hope you all are well x

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  • I would advise you to see your GP and let him/her know how you are feeling

  • Hi there holjol22

    Welcome to Action on Depression. You'll find lots of support here from our wonderful members who I'm sure will reply shortly.

    I just wanted to say I'm sorry you are feeling so down and I wonder if you regret quitting Uni. If so, it may not be too late to return, you could go to your Doctor and explain how you are feeling and maybe he will write a letter for you to send to Uni, just a thought. It's never too late!


  • Hi life often is what happens to you whilst you are planning it unfortunately. It's no wonder you are feeling so down after what you have been through, so give yourself time to recover a bit. I am sure when the time is right you will find some of your get up and go again.

    If you don't and the feelings continue then it might be wise to visit your doctor as it could turn into depression. There is help available for this so don't delay in seeking it if you need to. x

  • You can always chat here,talk to doc n stuff it helps sometimes.

  • I am sure this seems like the least of your issues, and it is, but take a shower! It's surprising how good it will make you feel.

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